Lilmama1011
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You give it to them and make yourself get into the mood or you don't give in and he/she will wait until you ready? And if you don't give in do they behave differently?
What do you do if your SO other wants it every night?
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FlowerHair
Reclaiming my time
LOL!
Compromise, is my answer...sometimes you give him what he wants and vice versa...
Compromise, is my answer...sometimes you give him what he wants and vice versa...
Evolving78
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that is too much going on. you need time to drain and breathe! 
intergalacticartist
New Member
Don't do it just to appease him. Say no if you don't want to
If you truly don't want to and don't even feel like being seduced into it, then don't.
If you're neutral and don't mind being seduced, then let it happen.
Cavaet: If you're denying him and/or don't feel like having sex with him more than 50% of the time, then it might be time to take a deeper look into things. There could be underlying issues not being addressed to make you feel that way (not saying there is, just throwing it out there).
If you're neutral and don't mind being seduced, then let it happen.
Cavaet: If you're denying him and/or don't feel like having sex with him more than 50% of the time, then it might be time to take a deeper look into things. There could be underlying issues not being addressed to make you feel that way (not saying there is, just throwing it out there).
BGT
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I have no idea, but I wish I knew because I'm in that situation right now.
At first everyday was fun. But now, almost 3 years later, everyday is waaaaay too much. My body is perfectly happy with once or twice a week. I feel so bad because when I tell him no, it's like someone killed his dog. Lol.
At first everyday was fun. But now, almost 3 years later, everyday is waaaaay too much. My body is perfectly happy with once or twice a week. I feel so bad because when I tell him no, it's like someone killed his dog. Lol.
LivingInPeace
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The old folks might say that this sounds like a high class problem.
That would be a problem...
meesch
yeezytotme
i could not do everyday. i need recuperation time, physically. right now bf and i pretty much see each other on weekends, and we are together we more or less have sex each day. i have yet to effectively distract him with something shiny having sex everrrrrry time is only ok bc we dont see each other all the time. if we saw each other everyday i would need for him to go have a seat.
having sex everrrrrry time is only ok bc we dont see each other all the time. if we saw each other everyday i would need for him to go have a seat.
firecracker
Well-Known Member
Tell em to put a ring on it or shut up!
MD_Lady
Well-Known Member
Yup, because "giving" him sex when you don't want to is a GREAT way to built up resentment.
pinkchocolatedaisy
Well-Known Member
BGT said:Well, I want it every night so...
LOL same here!
Just throwing some things out there to the OP and other ladies who are feeling a decrease in their desire.......
Hormonal birth control can cause issues with a woman's libido. So, if there are no major issues btw you and your husband or life stressors that you can pinpoint, then BC could be an issue.
Hormonal birth control can cause issues with a woman's libido. So, if there are no major issues btw you and your husband or life stressors that you can pinpoint, then BC could be an issue.
StarScream35
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My last relationship was the other way around...........my man was telling me no. I was like whaaaaa!!!
Jas123
The Star of a Story
me thinks this will be my issue after being celibate for so long + my already high sex drive...
shortycocoa
Hair Weave Killer
I haven't read all the responses yet but I will....
I would put it on him every night because I want it every night....my sex drive is bananas!!!! And since I'm on #teambi during the times of the month that I can't break him off we'll have a chick on deck to mixx with....
I would put it on him every night because I want it every night....my sex drive is bananas!!!! And since I'm on #teambi during the times of the month that I can't break him off we'll have a chick on deck to mixx with....
shortycocoa
Hair Weave Killer
Well, I want it every night so...
. . .and morning
We did it last night and this morning too.
Alright!!!! (to all three quotes!) I'm a nympho...
wow....but yeah that used to piss me off when my ex-husband (he was my bf then) would tell me no....but he admitted years later that it was due to him being insecure sexually and being threatened by my sexuality and my high sex drive.on to the next....LMAO!
Me and Relle Smith gets busy!!!!
Damaged but not out
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80% of the time i give in. I wake up very often and demand xes, no matter the time i get what I want so. Give and take.
and we both have the same drive (overdrive)...so we are good!
