Weird Question For Married Folks

[FemmeFatale]

So..how was your wedding night/honeymoon?

Did you do the do that night? Was it whimsical? Did you fall asleep?

I'm curious and too embarrassed to ask anyone IRL, lol.

 

[FemmeFatale]

Ugh this is the reason why I didn't originally make the thread here

 

[naturalgyrl5199]

I was so friggin tired. It was meh.

The next day was better.
Real talk.

 

[LucieLoo12]

For me. It was nothing magical. We went to Chik Fil A (Because we didn't eat at our wedding). We did consummate the marriage but it was nothing "romantic" because we were absolutely tired from our wedding. lol The rest of the week was amazing

 

[LivingInPeace]

We went to sleep.

 

[naturalmanenyc]

We had an after party at the hotel with family and friends, then went to our suite and fell asleep, still had on my dress and makeup.

 

[Prettymetty]

I was beyond exhausted, but we still ended up doing it.

 

[Miss617]

Didn't even spend my wedding night with my husband. He spent it at my MIL's house with his aunt and uncle he hadn't seen in a couple of years. I'm still mad about it. Is that petty?

 

[Honey Bee]

I wonder about this. Part of my wedding night plans will include a way to cut the festivities short enough that we can still get it in.

 

[BGT]

Didn't even spend my wedding night with my husband. He spent it at my MIL's house with his aunt and uncle he hadn't seen in a couple of years. I'm still mad about it. Is that petty?

Are you for real?

 

[Crystal22]

We fooled around and tried to consumate as soon as we got back to our apartment after the reception....it was a no go....I was a virgin and it wasn't going in lol. We finally got to our actual honeymoon spot several hours later after the ceremony, reception and driving several hours. We passed out...I don't even clearly remember if we attempted to do it again lol...maybe sometime over in the morning. Anyway after several attempts on the honeymoon we managed to get it in...literally....after we got back home lol.

 

[Miss617]

Are you for real?

Yes. Not the whole night, I should say. We went home after the reception for awhile, then to my MIL's. I got tired and he walked me home and stayed with me for a bit. He either asked or I told him to go back, can't remember which. He came back maybe two hours later, but by then I was asleep.

 

[ladysaraii]

I remember a family friend saying that a lot of people don't consummate that night, you're just so tired after the wedding.

 

[sunnieb]

Another benefit of being a courthouse bride!

We were young and full of energy! I distinctly remember us standing in front of our hotel window looking out at the city and staring at our rings. Then he sat in a chair and I sat in his lap for a while just soaking it all in. We rented a movie, then consummated our marriage all night.

Good times.....

 

[FemmeFatale]

Another benefit of being a courthouse bride!

We were young and full of energy! I distinctly remember us standing in front of our hotel window looking out at the city and staring at our rings. Then he sat in a chair and I sat in his lap for a while just soaking it all in. We rented a movie, then consummated our marriage all night.

Good times.....

This sound like a dream.

 

[FoxxyLocs]

We talked for a little bit then went to sleep.

 

[Layluh]

I remember a family friend saying that a lot of people don't consummate that night, you're just so tired after the wedding.

See I heard a doctor say a lot of newly weds get UTIs on their honeymoon.

I went in for a check up and she asked if I'd had any problems. I told her about the uti I had...she somehow remembered the day I got married and say " yup that happens a lot on honey moons"

 

[Virtuosa]

I didn't lose my virginity until 3 days after I got married. I was a 25 year old virgin and like the other poster mentioned, it just wouldn't go in. We weren't tired, just awkward. Lol

 

[FemmeFatale]

See I heard a doctor say a lot of newly weds get UTIs on their honeymoon.

I went in for a check up and she asked if I'd had any problems. I told her about the uti I had...she somehow remembered the day I got married and say " yup that happens a lot on honey moons"

Wait why? Cause they didn't pee in between sessions? Lol

 

[Layluh]

Wait why? Cause they didn't pee in between sessions? Lol

I don't know. I pee much more than the avg person. I do know we were doing the most though. He visited during a holiday while he was in boot camp... We hadn't seen each other in a while. **** happens man.

 

[CurliDiva]

After the late afternoon ceremony and evening reception, we also had an after-party with more music, food and drinks (his family tradition).....we're were both too tired!

 

[PrissiSippi]

My BFF is in the army and didn't have a place to go so she came to the house and took my earrings off and took my corset off and brushed my hair. I was so mad because of course I wanted DH to do that. But I think she was trying to help because I back went out the day before the wedding. At the rehearsal dinner i all of a sudden couldn't walk. They got me real doped up to get down the aisle and put my corset on extra tight.

Anyway DH finally gets situated. I'm completely naked and mad and giggling at the same time. We did the deed twice before we both collapsed and were knocked out. The reception lasted until 1am. We were tired! It was actually better after the honeymoon when we were more relaxed.

 

[gabulldawg]

I also had a courthouse wedding. Honestly I don't even remember if we did it. I was pregnant when we had our ceremony and we didn't go to the courthouse and make it official until a few months later.

 

[MuziqizLyfe]

My wedding night was lovely... the sex was awkward and sweet at the same time. Neither of us were virgins but we didn't have sex or any physical contact until our wedding night. I hadn't had sex in over two years and was very inexperienced so it was like losing my virginity all over again pain wise. He was 7 years older, experienced and had been celibate for almost two years so he was very eager but patient so it balanced out. Later on he told me he wanted to get it going as soon as we got to our hotel but he knew I wasn't ready. So we talked, ate, laughed for hours...was probably the middle of night before anything got going.

 

[Southernbella.]

We slept. We were exhausted, plus there was a death in his family that morning so there was just a lot going on.

From what I've heard, either way is normal.

 

[MizAvalon]

We did but we were tired as hell and only did it so we could have sex on our wedding night.

I passed out in full makeup immediately after.

 

[wall]

We had sex but it was whack because we did it just to do it and "consummate" our marriage. We had an after party with our friends to get to so we didn't have time for romance or whatever. It was not our first time so it was whatever. The next morning, however...

 

[Femmefatal1981]

No sex that night. We got in super late and we had a very early flight out the next day. We saved it for our cruise.

 

[Femmefatal1981]

I wonder about this. Part of my wedding night plans will include a way to cut the festivities short enough that we can still get it in.

Have an early wedding...my reception ended at midnight. Then we hit the hotel bar. We left my family there partying and when we came down to go to the airport they were just leaving the bar and going to breakfast. Still in formal attire, lol. So yeah...morning wedding and afternoon reception.

 

[vani]

Another benefit of being a courthouse bride!

We were young and full of energy! I distinctly remember us standing in front of our hotel window looking out at the city and staring at our rings. Then he sat in a chair and I sat in his lap for a while just soaking it all in. We rented a movie, then consummated our marriage all night.

Good times.....

Netflix and chill