Over the weekend, my DH & I attended his Mom's birthday party. It was semi-formal and was held at a very nice restaurant.
When we walked in, we were told that my DH along with all of his brothers would be seated with their mother on the dais. However, all of the sister-in-laws were to be seated together at another table. My DH was livid and insisted on sitting with me. But I insisted that he would not sit with me because I knew that it would cause a big scene.
I along with my sister-in-laws were not pleased, but we handled the situation in a decent manner.
When it came time for my mother-in-law to thank all of her guests for coming, she called the names of several guests and thanked them for coming. She even thanked her ex-daughter-in-law and called her name. She then said, Thank my daughter-in-laws," and proceeded personally to thank her other guests. (There were only 3 daughter-in-laws present).
Some of the guests who came asked us why we were not not sitting with our husbands. One of my sister-in-laws replied, "Because they assigned us to sit at this table."
Mother-in-law called me the next morning to tell me how much she appreciated me coming to her party and how much she loved me. She also said that she didn't have any hatred in her heart against anybody. Um, where did that come from? My DH said that she should've said all of this at her party.
My DH said that I don't have to call nor visit with his mother anymore. She's very petty.
Be that as it may, I still enjoyed myself cause I sat next to my sister-in-law whom I love dearly. She's extremely funny and is the life of the party. I also met some of DH's relatives who were extremely warm and also very kind to me.
When we walked in, we were told that my DH along with all of his brothers would be seated with their mother on the dais. However, all of the sister-in-laws were to be seated together at another table. My DH was livid and insisted on sitting with me. But I insisted that he would not sit with me because I knew that it would cause a big scene.
I along with my sister-in-laws were not pleased, but we handled the situation in a decent manner.
When it came time for my mother-in-law to thank all of her guests for coming, she called the names of several guests and thanked them for coming. She even thanked her ex-daughter-in-law and called her name. She then said, Thank my daughter-in-laws," and proceeded personally to thank her other guests. (There were only 3 daughter-in-laws present).
Some of the guests who came asked us why we were not not sitting with our husbands. One of my sister-in-laws replied, "Because they assigned us to sit at this table."
Mother-in-law called me the next morning to tell me how much she appreciated me coming to her party and how much she loved me. She also said that she didn't have any hatred in her heart against anybody. Um, where did that come from? My DH said that she should've said all of this at her party.
My DH said that I don't have to call nor visit with his mother anymore. She's very petty.
Be that as it may, I still enjoyed myself cause I sat next to my sister-in-law whom I love dearly. She's extremely funny and is the life of the party. I also met some of DH's relatives who were extremely warm and also very kind to me.
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