I use gels, paste and thick leave-ins.
Gels
Fantasia IC - Great flexible hold
Ecostyler (any) - Firm hold, but not drying.
As I Am Gel - Flexible, soft hold
Cons: I can only use it on last day hair because I don't want build up; but I wash every 3 days so its not a big deal.
Paste
Curls Passion Fruit Control Paste - Soft hold, holds edges back like nothing else.
Cons: A little goes a long way. I keep it on the edges because your hair can look too straight, waxy or pasty if you use any more than that.
Thick Leave Ins.
Any type for me (Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie, Beautiful Textures Moisture Butter, etc). My hair is on the fine side so a little leave in and 10 minutes under a scarf and my hair is set for the day.
Cons: If your hair is more kinky or thick, it probably won't work.