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shadiya I've been doing wngs only for the last couple weeks. The majority of my hair conforms, just not the top of my head. I use a brush (bootleg denman) while my hair is soaking wet and with leave in or conditioner, it eliminates frizz in one step and I find it helps a lot. I could try to do the same thing with my fingers though, don't think I've attempted that yet...
My hair hates gel...it becomes more coarse and kinks up into 99 percent shrinkage.
It's weird actually. And when I use it on the straight portions of my hair, it makes it even straighter! The top of my hair is only slightly wavy and very frizzy. It's not damage, I've chopped it several times and it grows back like that so I usually sweep it to the side and clip it down when I do my bun/pony. I end up with more shrinkage when I wear it out for some reason.
I probably need to give it more time. I plan on not straightening my hair at all this year (except for february and august for special occasions on those days) so hopefully my hair will start sorting itself out with time and getting used to wash n goes.