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This is a long vent but my questions are at the bottom if you want to skip the scenario and answer the questions --
I'm not a hard core stretcher because the concept is still new to me. I use to touch up every 6 weeks. My first stretch ended at 9 weeks. I just ended my second stretch tonight at 16 weeks. My stylist is opposed to stretching so immediately when she parted my hair, the jump off took place.
She: OH MY YOU HAVE A LOT OF NEW GROWTH
Me: That's a good thing
She: Try not to go this long again because your hair gets too tangled; our hair is a lot alike
Me: I don't have any problems at home combing and parting my hair *shrug*
She: (quiet..... but her actions spoke louder than words)
She started pulling, yanking and parting my hair with all disregard to proper hair care procedure. She was ripping through the tangles and being rough. I honestly thought my hair was nicely detangled but apparently not. I admit, the new growth was thick, but not such that she should have been muscling up on my head and acting like Pretty Boy Floyd in a boxing match. As she based my scalp and worked the chemical through, I could hear ripping and popping and felt the tugging. I finally had a mental melt down and a few tears streamed down my face; I was just fed up.
Fast forward: After rinsing/conditioning hair, she used a fine tooth comb to detangle my hair AND she detangled from root to tip. I'm sure she's always done this but I never noticed it before because I just didn't know any better prior to joining LHCF. Now that I know better, her technique frustrates me.
As I was getting ready to leave the salon, she hugs me and says -- you didn't suffer any breakage, just shedding for taking so long to get a retouch. You're hair looks great. Blah blah.
Now that I'm home, I glanced over my hair but I can't really see any noticeable damage.
I did all that rambling to ask --
Now that I've ended my stretch, what do you look for to tell if you suffered any breakage, damage, etc? And how do you determine if your stretch was successful or a failed attempt?
I'm not a hard core stretcher because the concept is still new to me. I use to touch up every 6 weeks. My first stretch ended at 9 weeks. I just ended my second stretch tonight at 16 weeks. My stylist is opposed to stretching so immediately when she parted my hair, the jump off took place.
She: OH MY YOU HAVE A LOT OF NEW GROWTH
Me: That's a good thing
She: Try not to go this long again because your hair gets too tangled; our hair is a lot alike
Me: I don't have any problems at home combing and parting my hair *shrug*
She: (quiet..... but her actions spoke louder than words)
She started pulling, yanking and parting my hair with all disregard to proper hair care procedure. She was ripping through the tangles and being rough. I honestly thought my hair was nicely detangled but apparently not. I admit, the new growth was thick, but not such that she should have been muscling up on my head and acting like Pretty Boy Floyd in a boxing match. As she based my scalp and worked the chemical through, I could hear ripping and popping and felt the tugging. I finally had a mental melt down and a few tears streamed down my face; I was just fed up.
Fast forward: After rinsing/conditioning hair, she used a fine tooth comb to detangle my hair AND she detangled from root to tip. I'm sure she's always done this but I never noticed it before because I just didn't know any better prior to joining LHCF. Now that I know better, her technique frustrates me.
As I was getting ready to leave the salon, she hugs me and says -- you didn't suffer any breakage, just shedding for taking so long to get a retouch. You're hair looks great. Blah blah.
Now that I'm home, I glanced over my hair but I can't really see any noticeable damage.
I did all that rambling to ask --
Now that I've ended my stretch, what do you look for to tell if you suffered any breakage, damage, etc? And how do you determine if your stretch was successful or a failed attempt?