NewYorkgyrl
Well-Known Member
So much of my hair came out today when I was detangling my hair in the shower after washing. I did all the right things like leave in the conditioner and detangle from the bottom up with a K-cutter comb.
I am surprised I still have hair left on my head that is how much I feel just kept coming off.
I don't know what to do with my hair in terms of moisture. I can't keep doing the co-wash thing to often because I don't want to deal with detangling my hair and taking so much time so many times a week. I think 1-2 times a week is ok.
But then when my hair is air drying sometimes it airdries soft some times hard and i 'm talking about the relaxed parts. How do I keep my new growth soft and manageable I have tried just about everything on this board.
I just don't understand if we are supposed to be using as little manipulation as possible how do you moisturize your newgrowth daily? Doesn't that require parting in small sections and moisturizing? And then after all of that if you want to put it in a bun isn't that more manuipulation of combing in order to get your hair into the bun? I'm so confused and so lost.
I bought the denman brush and I was to afraid to use it because when I tried to use it on damp hair it felt tlike it was pulling my hair out of the roots. Am I doing something wrong? I was planning on using this brush to get my hair into a ponytail in order to do a nice bun
Right now I am just sitting with my air out airdrying it trying to decide what to do what to do. I am sooooo close to tears right now.
I am going to the Caribbean next week to visit family I want to go swimming but I can't deal with this detangling stuff especially with that cold A** water that is very slow in coming out of the pipe. But I HATE braids. Please someone help me...........Not feeling good about my hair is starting to mess with my self-esteem.
I am surprised I still have hair left on my head that is how much I feel just kept coming off.
I don't know what to do with my hair in terms of moisture. I can't keep doing the co-wash thing to often because I don't want to deal with detangling my hair and taking so much time so many times a week. I think 1-2 times a week is ok.
But then when my hair is air drying sometimes it airdries soft some times hard and i 'm talking about the relaxed parts. How do I keep my new growth soft and manageable I have tried just about everything on this board.
I just don't understand if we are supposed to be using as little manipulation as possible how do you moisturize your newgrowth daily? Doesn't that require parting in small sections and moisturizing? And then after all of that if you want to put it in a bun isn't that more manuipulation of combing in order to get your hair into the bun? I'm so confused and so lost.
I bought the denman brush and I was to afraid to use it because when I tried to use it on damp hair it felt tlike it was pulling my hair out of the roots. Am I doing something wrong? I was planning on using this brush to get my hair into a ponytail in order to do a nice bun
Right now I am just sitting with my air out airdrying it trying to decide what to do what to do. I am sooooo close to tears right now.
I am going to the Caribbean next week to visit family I want to go swimming but I can't deal with this detangling stuff especially with that cold A** water that is very slow in coming out of the pipe. But I HATE braids. Please someone help me...........Not feeling good about my hair is starting to mess with my self-esteem.