Venting: WHY DO I NEED A PERM??!! LONG VENT!

[Denise11]

You have to stop worrying about what folks say about you. People are always have something negative to say. Don't let their opinions matter too much to you. What you think, and what you want to do is what's important.

 

[ShantWhite]

Ooo, just wait! At some point they will start soliciting you for advice. When they see that whatever potions you're using have grown your hair down your back and they are still at the same tired length with the same tired raggedy ends.

It trips me out when women who have ZERO hair care skills feel the need to offer input (usually negative).

**shakes fist**

This is exactly what happened to me! I have a co-worker who calls my hair in buns "compound hair" and says it looks like one of those "FLDS ladies" ...and she refers to LHCF as the "Hair Cult", but why did she ask me for advice and the website address last month when her $#!* start falling out! . Now she had to go and get it all cut off short and pretend she just wanted a Halle cut erplexed.

I'm 13 weeks also and considering transitioning, so I flat ironed my hair the other day and she was the main one goo-gooing over how long and healthy it looked. Like Katt Williams said "YOU NEED HATERS - LET THEM DO THEIR JOB!!"