Use 1 Buy 1 Challenge pt.5

bronzebomb

I told you to call him.:rolleyes: 15 posts Ago.:lol:

Long Distance has it's good & bad points.

I just hate *dead air* and unresolved issues.:yep: I agree with divachyk on that point.

But, I 'suspect' it's more to it than just hair. It's Hair Today....What's it Gone be Tomorrow???:perplexed

Just Sayin'.:ohwell:...:rolleyes:
 
Hey, ladies. Hope everyone is well.

I'm sitting here waiting on this snowstorm to start. Around 1am, I think. I already have a pressure headache from it.

*sigh* I love purchasing hair stuff. I miss it.
 
There's more. He told me everything. I jsut heard the hair stuff. He doesn't want dogs (I have 2) in the house, they are nasty. He doesn't want anymore kids, but since I don't have any he feels obligated to. Ohio will be home, after we agreed it would be Florida. I'm underemployed (I have a MBA but I work for the Federal Government). I'm junkie as hell, he is a neat freak!

My weight he can deal with...*cuz he use to be fat, now fine/fit. He can snap me into shape.

D*mn, I feel like I'm on the red couch! I'm letting it all out!

but, today, January 20th, 2012, I've come to realize "I'm not that girl"
 
everything will work out bronze! :hug: talk to him, like divachyk and mama T suggested.

and if that don't work, tell him to kick rocks and come visit my campus and git chu a young bwoy. :rofl: they can't keep they hands out my head, don't like my wraps, don't like it straight, they want it OUT and natchal at all times :rolleyes:

but DC is very natural-friendly, i'm sure you know :yep:
 
bronzebomb - best of luck to you in 2012. Seems like he's making a lot of excuses. You waited & supported him thru school & now he wanna act brand new. If it don't work out, take care of you & enjoy life. Men always running some ish!
 
Hmp. That Jessicurl is a Straight Up Clown.:lol: FREE SHIPPING $75.00 & Up.:look:

I need to unsubscribe from that fool.:rolleyes:

$75 really? Girl Bye! She is getting to be like Mala. Bad sales.

Hmp.:rolleyes:

everything will work out bronze! :hug: talk to him, like divachyk and mama T suggested.

and if that don't work, tell him to kick rocks and come visit my campus and git chu a young bwoy. :rofl: they can't keep they hands out my head, don't like my wraps, don't like it straight, they want it OUT and natchal at all times :rolleyes:

but DC is very natural-friendly, i'm sure you know :yep:

robot. don't let me come your school and steal all the 12 year olds. I like men, young or old!!! :lachen:
 
bronzebomb I don't like to tell people what to do but it sounds like a lot of the compromise is on your part, you'd have to move, you have to alter your hair, you have to do something about your dogs, he feels he needs to fix your weight... :nono:
Make sure you don't end up compromising so much that you end up resenting him in the long run ((((hugs))))
 
Okay so I will be going on a nail polish no buy. I feel that I have channeled my inner desire to buy to nail polish. I've found myself grabbing polish everywhere I go. Snagged a OPI in Walmart tonight. So, it's a wrap. I'm going on a short term nail polish no buy.

bronzebomb, well Ma, I didn't realize it was more than just hair. Much like chebaby and IDareT'sHair stated, it's hair today but then what will it be tomorrow. No need to delete. You don't sound pitiful. Just need the love and support of your girls, in which we're more than willing to give. I'm sure we've all been in a tough space of some kind with a man so it's all good. We got you through thick and thin / good or bad.
 
Hey bronzebomb, i don't want any of my friend online or in person to suffer. You have to take a little of other folks life experience and learn. I'm tell you ltown is cold as ice in relationships i have mislead, been mislead, lied, cheated,etc... When i want to leave i start complaining about the man, don't like this or that. I buy stuff i knkw they don't want or like, what i'm saying is mr. Assman is complaining about you either he wants you to change for himm or he don't like you as you are. It hurts especially if you put time/$ in the relationship. You deserve to be happy if you do what he want will you be happy for you or having him? What/how does he make you happy? I wish you well and don't be ashame, you can delete the post as you know lurkers live/love U1B1:lol: we are family, got ny sister with me! :grin:
 
@bronzebomb

You be ai'ite. Sometimes it's good to unload. :yep:

Unfortunately we are all spread across the Country. Otherwise.....we could get right to you and hug/support/listen/talk/EAT whatever you need....:lol:

We can all delete posts (if you'd feel more comfortable) I don't mind.

One Day you'll love back and give yourself a *Face Palm*:lol:

Cause You All That.:yep:

You'll be fine. Trust me.:blowkiss:
 
Mornin loves! Just caught up on reading and not to bring up old **** but Ms Bronze, as much as it hurts, I'd cut my losses. Hair isn't his issue (as you found out) and leopards don't change their spots. There's a difference between compromising and conforming. Don't let that man morph you into someone you don't recognize. Like I said last week, he can get right or get left. I was already still mad at him, now this :lol:

I'm doing nothing this morning. Boo and my dad are putting some shelves in next to the fireplace for me. I love those fellas. I'm on day two of a wng. Was going to wash again today, but saw that it was 3 degrees and said ne'rmind.
 
IDareT'sHair I got my ticket to TX last week. I hope the weather is nice. Sis said it was nice yesterday. I'm over this bitter cold!

I cooked breakfast :lol:. I made homemade chicken noodle soup last night and dad said make sure I have that and some bread hot and ready by 1:00. He think he run everybody house. I did put some in a pot to heat and throwing some rolls in the oven in a sec :lol: I'm grown, but I ain't crazy!
 
Hmm, I don't really think I like jessicurl wdt. I steamed with it last night and I am not impressed. I can't wait to finish tis jar. Won't be a repurchase.
 
@mkd How many more uses you got in that Jar mk? :perplexed

I do like @chebaby on Weekly Deep Treatment. I either Sell/Re-Buy or Swap/Re-Buy or Give Away/Re-Buy.:nono:

For some reason, I can never truly make up my mind about WDT but I love Too Shea!:grin:

I stay on The Fence with WDT. Don't quite know why tho'.:look:

I have 1 Jar of WDT in my Stash. I guess I'll give it a whirl again one day.:yawn:
 
Today I'm gonna wash than Dc/steam with qhemet's AOHC mixed with a bit of AO HSR to make it creamier. I definitely don't like it as a moisturiser, too heavy and greasy, but I'm pretty proud of my PJ self for giving it 2 weeks to work.

If I was smart I would've sold it to the hungry non-PJ masses for full price for a used jar :giggle:
 
@Ltown, psssh, I was rolling over for several more hours when you posted at 6 am. I stay up late and ahem, I sleep equally as late. My clock is so off. I force myself to sleep during the week with melatonin. On the weekend, I let me body do whatever it pleases.

Last night I dry DCd with my heat therapy wrap. I really like that lil ole thang. I used AOWC and ORS replenishing pak. Cowashed that out with some old school V05 MM. Hair was nice and soft. I am pleased.
 
@ IDareT'sHair, chile it's gonna take me forever o finish that wdt. It's only like 20% gone. Honestly. I may just end up giving it away. I want to move on to something else.
 
Y'all don't like wdt? That's one of my staples. I hated Too Shea while transitioning but now I love it to cowash.

I'm about to leave and let the men have the house. To the mall!
 
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