Use 1 Buy 1 Challenge pt.5

bronzebomb

But. Ya'll. We're. Talkin'. Marriage.:look: That makes it a little different. :nono:

But I'm glad you found out some things before you went further. i.e. relocating, relaxing etc........:ohwell:

While, I respect individual 'preferences' something like that shouldn't be a deal-breaker.

It just sounded petty & shallow for someone so highly educated.:perplexed
 
bronzebomb, girl hang in there and do what's good for you. :yep:

I received my clarisonic in the mail today! :yep: Golden75, did you buy yours?

A few days ago I purchased a few Nubar polishes and they shipped. Amazon purchase.
My Zoya polish finally shipped from the Zoya promo. FINALLY!
 
Steaming with Marie Dean Vanilla Repair. I just want to put the whole jar on my Head.:lick:

Lawd I Loves Some Marie Dean.:grin:

And that's a durn shame, because it cost so much.:nono:...SMH:blush:
 
my stomach hurts from all this mess. I've known him since 2003. I almost went to the Dr. to get a prescription.

The funny thing is, my sister went to school with him and she had the crush on him.:lachen:

When we first started dating I was relaxed and tried to transition before. He thought it was a phase and told me he didn't like it. So the second time around, when I actually BC he was :nono: He told me I looked like Shirley on What's Happening.

He lives in Ohio. I live in Maryland. I'm not leaving my comfortable lifetsyle to move there and he end up leaving me for the Asian girl that's always smiling in his face!

The best remedy is, is, is...I don't know help me out. I'm clueless.
 
Sorry bronzebomb. If its over, someone better will come along.

divachyk, I got my zoya polishes today. One looks very similar to one I already have, no worries, it was free 99.
 
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@bronzebomb

Don't let that work your Nerves and have you all tangled up in Knots (no pun intended):sad:

Have you tried contacting Him?:rolleyes:

I know it's sounds easier said than done, but Girl, you are Fabulous! You have everything going for you.

He should be honored to be in your company. And that's the T-Gospel.:yep:

We discount ourselves too often and we are the true Prize. (Not them). If only we could see & value our worth. And not by someone else's standards.

That Asian Chick ain't thinkin' bout him. (for real, for real).:fishslap:

You are So much more than your Hair. It's just such a non-issue. I mean, yeah we're on this forum talmbout hair.

More of a Hobby than a Life Mission...(at least I hope).

And I know you love him. (I can tell). But, what he's on (your hair) is just not that important.:ohwell:
 
bronzebomb

Oh yeah, that was nickle tryna' be funny. He know you wasn't lookin' like no Shirley on What's Happening. That was Lame.:rolleyes:

And anyway, Nell Carter is a very nice looking lady too. So that wasn't even funny.:rolleyes:

*cough* lemme quit talmbout that boy.:rolleyes: he make me wanna smack him.:lol:

:look:What you buyin' after the No-Buy? After tonight's Cowash, I wouldn't mind having another Liter of Oyin Honey Hemp. I love that stuff.:lick:
 
He started this mess before the new year. I guess he needed to get it off his mind. I am NOT calling him. We both have iphones and Skype and FaceTime. I called him last and I said what was on my mind. I do not have any next steps.

I just got right. I'm trying not to order a pizza and drink the rest of this Coconut Ciroc.

Thank you so much for the kind words. Women say nice things quite frequently. I really appreciate it.

Hopefully the weave looks good. This will be my first time installing a closure.
I don't want to get kicked out of this thread for the emotional stuff so...My scalp is sore. Do you think it's growing? I always experience tender scalp in the winter.
 
bronzebomb, I can only speak for myself but you can talk about whatever you want in this thread, no one is going to kick you out. I can tell you are hurting and I am sorry. That is some bs.
 
IDareT'sHair - Girl I was looking like shirley:whyme:

That nappy bush was a mess! So I immediately started Protective Styling.

If I wasn't so insecure about my hair I would have a comeback for him...I'm not there yet:nono::smirk:, cuz, I'm still weaving, wigging, and twisting (with extentions).
 
IDareT'sHair - I'm saying, it's ridic with the QB now. There are other places to go, go get it if your ish that dry! Napata is very nice, but about answering & explaining but I get it. It's easier to send bulk to a few places, then a bunch of orders to multiple places. I may get the CTDG if I catch the sale, if I don't no biggie.

divachyk - I didn't get it. I had it in the cart, but $70, I didn't feel like spending, and I wasn't sure if I want mia or splurge for the plus, I prefer the latter, but we'll see.

I did buy polish - spring colors from China Glaze, and I used one of my Bloom vouchers and got 5 of the new spring Essie colors - no $ out of pocket. Still got a $50 voucher left.
 
@bronzebomb

@mkd is right. You know we talk from Soup to Nuts in this Thread.:lol:

I still think if all he got to worry about is your Hair, Yous a good Woman.

Anything can happen in Life. A person could get an illness and not have any hair at all. Would he leave?

No Breast. I mean...what?:ohwell:

In the Grand Scheme of Life, that's just plain crazy. Some Natural Hair.:rolleyes:

Pffftt:rolleyes:

A friend I went to College with had this 6 figure bangin' IT job (at a Financial Institution). She got down-sized. They "said" her function was being moved to India.:ohwell:

They had just bought a new home several years prior.

Nicca came home. Laid his keys on the table said he was moving out.:blush:

He left her un-employed with all those bills & and a Sky-High Mortgage. :blush:

She was out of work a little over a year. Now she has a job at the same pay(or more) & a New Man.:lol:
 
Hey ladies

bronzebomb Wow I'm sorry you're hurting but as others stated his loss, just don't let him make you bitter.
You're a strong , independent, beautiful woman and you deserve a man who will appreciate you in all your glory as well as be understanding and supportive so you both as a unit can attain greatness.
 
when you put time in, you want a ROI (return on Investment). I want him. But I want him to want me too. This man went to law school at 40 (and I waited). I'm not waiting anymore. I'm out. I want a partner. I thought he was my partner. He was the only man that I lusted first.

Here it is 20 days in the new year and I have rethink 2012. What's next?
 
chello ladies
whats up with the site? is it just me that has problems getting on? i gotta be a smoooove criminal and go in through old links and what nots. cant click on the forum tab, gotta click on the home tab and go in through my old mentions just to get to this thread:drunk: its a mess.

anyway my hair is dry as a bone. tomorrow imma cleanse with daily fix and condition with cj rehab. then use kckt and kccc cause i wanna use something up and the kckt is almost gone.
 
bronzebomb said:
when you put time in, you want a ROI (return on Investment). I want him. But I want him to want me too. This man went to law school at 40 (and I waited). I'm not waiting anymore. I'm out. I want a partner. I thought he was my partner. He was the only man that I lusted first.

Here it is 20 days in the new year and I have rethink 2012. What's next?[/QUOTE]
awwwww i know this feeling girl.

youll figure it out:yep:
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T, you know i gotta be smoooove to get on here:nono: it keeps kicking me out of the hair forum unless i go in through old mentions or some randome way. but i can go in OT or the ET forum just fine:spinning:
 
oh and i forgot to mention, i purchased cj PP gel and DM hair whip from aveyou:look: but i got rid of 5 products so i figure by my calculations i done pretty well lol.
 
@bronzebomb, I'm down to discussing whatever.

This may not be popular opinion but I'm speaking from the heart: I swear I applaud your courage because I don't know how I would handle a situation like so. One part of me feels that I would hold strong and be like, this is my hair so take it or leave it. But then again, I don't feel that hair is important enough to lose the love of my life. I get that we as women want a man to accept us for who we are but on the flip side, I won't accept a man with certain attributes. So here's what I think -- it's not that serious losing each other over hair without a honest discussion of what's really his issue. I say call him and seriously discuss his true issue to find a mutual ground. It could be that he doesn't like an afro puff but likes kinky twists, etc. (just using an analogy). If at whatever point you simply can't come to a logical compromise, then perhaps moving on is the answer. I wouldn't go out without a fight for someone I love and from what it seems, he is a good man, great career and he adores you. The only hangup is hair. To me, it's not that serious, find a compromise that suits you both (i.e., natural styles that you both dig) and live happily every after. Just my 2 cents.
 
divachyk said:
@bronzebomb, I'm down to discussing whatever.

This may not be popular opinion but I'm speaking from the heart: I swear I applaud your courage because I don't know how I would handle a situation like so. One part of me feels that I would hold strong and be like, this is my hair so take it or leave it. But then again, I don't feel that hair is important enough to lose the love of my life. I get that we as women want a man to accept us for who we are but on the flip side, I won't accept a man with certain attributes. So here's what I think -- it's not that serious losing each other over hair without a honest discussion of what's really his issue. I say call him and seriously discuss his true issue to find a mutual ground. It could be that he doesn't like an afro puff but likes kinky twists, etc. (just using an analogy). If at whatever point you simply can't come to a logical compromise, then perhaps moving on is the answer. I wouldn't go out without a fight for someone I love and from what it seems, he is a good man, great career and he adores you. The only hangup is hair. To me, it's not that serious, find a compromise that suits you both (i.e., natural styles that you both dig) and live happily every after. Just my 2 cents.
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i agree talk it out and get to the bottom of his problem. but remember, its his problem not yours. you can compromise but dont give up everything for him.
 
I will consider being a straight natural... but i have a massive headache right now. I'm sure he will call. He is just trying to prove a point. (I think). But when I get angry, I can prove a point too.
 
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