Thank you everyone! It always takes other people to notice changes before you notice them too. I'll try to answer as many of the questions that I can:
I alternate between flat ironing and wearing it natural. The albums that are not locked are when I had relaxed hair. The album with me and my boyfriend the 2nd picture of us, I'm natural.
When I straighten, I wash, use a leave-in, apply wild growth hair oil, and I section into 8 sections. I put my hair in ponytails (think coolio w/o the braids). I then let my hair dry. I then start at each section and either flat iron or curl my hair (Depends if I want the straight bob look, or if I want curls). I then maintain my look by brushing with a paddle brush. I brush my hair back and tie down with a scarf.
When I used to be thinner, a lot of people said I looked like Tia and Tamera, but since my face has gotten fatter, I don't think I look too much like them anymore.
I'll probably do another post because I can't remember what everyone has said.