yokoyokogirl
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Foolishly got married at 22.
Came to Japan.
Lived for a year alone and happy, then EX came over.
Became emotionally and verbally abusive.
Tried to work on it, but moved out after 2 yrs. Gave up on working anything out with him.
Started dating new J-guy.
Jbf is very smart, romantic, tells lame jokes, can't dance or sing but loves Motown and gospel, overprotective, workaholic.
So far so good, but still worried.
Almost all of my friends don't like him.
They say "he's not for me" or "too serious"...can they see something I can't?
Plus I get tired of explaining all the cultural/societal differences btw Japanese men/Black women and America/Japan.
Are we doomed to fail or am I just lazy and give up too easily? Was it easy for him to swoop in after my jerk of an EX or is he genuinely good?
Any other ladies out there in an international relationship?erplexed
Came to Japan.
Lived for a year alone and happy, then EX came over.
Became emotionally and verbally abusive.
Tried to work on it, but moved out after 2 yrs. Gave up on working anything out with him.
Started dating new J-guy.
Jbf is very smart, romantic, tells lame jokes, can't dance or sing but loves Motown and gospel, overprotective, workaholic.
So far so good, but still worried.
Almost all of my friends don't like him.
They say "he's not for me" or "too serious"...can they see something I can't?
Plus I get tired of explaining all the cultural/societal differences btw Japanese men/Black women and America/Japan.
Are we doomed to fail or am I just lazy and give up too easily? Was it easy for him to swoop in after my jerk of an EX or is he genuinely good?
Any other ladies out there in an international relationship?erplexed