chocolatedoll18
New Member
Hi ladies. I've been thinking about something for a while and im just becoming more confused, so i decided to come here.
Ok I've been broken up with my ex for about 2 mos but we still live together. well im going to be moving out within the next two weeks even though he and I are still cordial and get along...for the most part. He still wants to be with me but i just cant do it . Now i still love him and care about him but just want it to be over because its not working out.
Fast forward an old friend (more like an ex even though we werent together for long) just recently contacted me on fb and wants me to call him. I was initially indecisive about that because we have history and im not sure what he wants from me (I dont want to be with him), but i dont mind hanging out . I dont want to call him while still living with my ex because i feel like i will be disrespecting him and i dont want to hurt him.
Also im not sure if i should waste my time with the friend because i dont want to lead him on or have us eventually stop talking again because we want different things.
What do you ladies think?
ETA:Me and ex friend have never colored and havent spoken in about 4 years.
Ok I've been broken up with my ex for about 2 mos but we still live together. well im going to be moving out within the next two weeks even though he and I are still cordial and get along...for the most part. He still wants to be with me but i just cant do it . Now i still love him and care about him but just want it to be over because its not working out.
Fast forward an old friend (more like an ex even though we werent together for long) just recently contacted me on fb and wants me to call him. I was initially indecisive about that because we have history and im not sure what he wants from me (I dont want to be with him), but i dont mind hanging out . I dont want to call him while still living with my ex because i feel like i will be disrespecting him and i dont want to hurt him.
Also im not sure if i should waste my time with the friend because i dont want to lead him on or have us eventually stop talking again because we want different things.
What do you ladies think?
ETA:Me and ex friend have never colored and havent spoken in about 4 years.
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