Transitioning without BC'ing Support Thread

do you have fine or thick hair?
in think you were one of my hair idols lol

I doubt I'm anyone's hair idol, Lol! I have very fine hair and after this very loooong three year HHJ of being bonelaxed, texlaxed and now transitioning back to natural I have learned two things: No chemicals and no heat will keep hair on my head. Granted I did accomplish a decent head of relaxed hair at one point which was when I was bonelaxed but I was terribly thinned out due to the nature of my hair; fine & low- medium density.

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I doubt I'm anyone's hair idol, Lol! I have very fine hair and after this very loooong three year HHJ of being bonelaxed, texlaxed and now transitioning back to natural I have learned two things: No chemicals and no heat will keep hair on my head. Granted I did accomplish a decent head of relaxed hair at one point which was when I was bonelaxed but I was terribly thinned out due to the nature of my hair; fine & low- medium density. Sent from my SM-N900V using LHCF

you did have long hair!! well that is great! :-)
 
I finally big chopped! I have at least an inch or so of hear damaged straight ends so I can't get a good pic of my curls. I think I'm going to cut off another two inches. I only have about 6 right now so I'm nervous
 

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I finally big chopped! I have at least an inch or so of hear damaged straight ends so I can't get a good pic of my curls. I think I'm going to cut off another two inches. I only have about 6 right now so I'm nervous
Congratulations looks good. I wouldn't go as far as two inches. Maybe you can get someone to help you get the rest of the straight pieces.
 
I finally big chopped! I have at least an inch or so of hear damaged straight ends so I can't get a good pic of my curls. I think I'm going to cut off another two inches. I only have about 6 right now so I'm nervous

Girl bye. Leave that hair alone. It's pretty!
 
sweetpea7 CONGRATULATIONS!!!

I am right behind you. Yesterday was 23 months post relaxer for me and I will wrap this transitioning journey up on December 14, 2014. :yay:
 
I finally big chopped! I have at least an inch or so of hear damaged straight ends so I can't get a good pic of my curls. I think I'm going to cut off another two inches. I only have about 6 right now so I'm nervous

Congrats on your BC!!

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I envy those that can use cocleansers instead of shampoo. My scalp gets way too much buildup no matter what products I use in between washes.

Today was a much better wash day! I DCed with AOGBP and used Giovanni leave in for the first time and I loved the slip. Sealed with chi silk infusion.
 
GettingKinky Because my hair is always fuzzy and frizzy It doesn't lay down It's driving me nuts And I'm wondering if all of this is worth it. I feel unattractive everyday :( Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
I know this feeling. I felt ugly the entire year :rofl:
I hated my hair through the majority of my transition. But since I bc'd I love it and I feel attractive, beautiful and sexy all the time now. I just wish it was longer. Bc'ing fixed a lot of things I hated about the two textures.
 
GettingKinky Because my hair is always fuzzy and frizzy It doesn't lay down It's driving me nuts And I'm wondering if all of this is worth it. I feel unattractive everyday :( Sent from my iPhone using LHCF

I'm not sure how you wear your hair daily, but super slick edges using the scarf method can make a bad style look completely different. I use ecostyler and hicks edges on bad hair days and it makes a world of a difference.
 
My new growth seems wavy, but I think it may actually be curly but I have so much texlaxed hair stretching it out.
 
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I envy those that can use cocleansers instead of shampoo. My scalp gets way too much buildup no matter what products I use in between washes.

Today was a much better wash day! I DCed with AOGBP and used Giovanni leave in for the first time and I loved the slip. Sealed with chi silk infusion.

I have this problem too. Its a torment. Im forced to lather over and over again and dry my hair out. Neutrogena T Sal seeed to work for a while but I think it stopped.
I'm at my wits end when it comes to shampooing. How can I clean my scalp without severely drying my hair. I even tried a scalp pre cleanse spray from sally's. It's not every effective. Idk what to do :(. More frequent shampooing may help but I like to wear my hair straight.
 
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I used that HV red tea hold pudding thing for the first time. Bomb Bantu knot out. I never use holding products because I've always been afraid of a dry crunch but my hair is fluffy and soft. I still can't believe how easy this transition has been. I was so afraid of it.
 
I have this problem too. Its a torment. Im forced to lather over and over again and dry my hair out. Neutrogena T Sal seeed to work for a while but I think it stopped.
I'm at my wits end when it comes to shampooing. How can I clean my scalp without severely drying my hair. I even tried a scalp pre cleanse spray from sally's. It's not every effective. Idk what to do :(. Morea frequent shampooing may help but I like to wear my hair straight.

Nazaneen are you able to do an Apple Cider Vinegar scalp cleanse. You can use a moisturizing poo or a sulfate free poo and spray ACV/water mix on your scalp and hair as a final rinse. Its all natural and people with sensitive or problemed scalps do well with this method. You can also use Rhassoul Clay Cleanse....its very healthy for your scalp, cleanse well but doesn't strip your hair, in fact is nourishes the hair. Look both of these up to learn more about them. I know using a sulfate shampoo and lathering several times is bad for both your scalp and hair and will exacerbate your problem.

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