Ms_Twana
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I did the BC on Tuesday, December 12. I was going to do it in January. Then I saw this girl who's hair was just GORGEOUS. So, I called my stylist to see if she could get me in this week, but she couldn't. I had already warned DH that I was going to get it cut. He's not impressed with the idea of me going natural. So, I looked up the thread about ladies that BCed themselves. Then I went upstairs and did it. I did it mostly on dry hair. And I just used my conditioner spray mix for spots where it was hard to find the demarcation line.
The next day, I wore a fall. And that night I did twists, for a twistout the next day. The second day, I took the twists out. And I got the confidence to rock my TWA to work. I know, after all that on how I admired those that had the confidence to rock the TWA. Now I can admire myself too.
I figured, if I totally disregarded how my HUSBAND felt about my hair, why the H%$# should I care about what people at work thought. So, I wore my hair out. And to boost my confidence even more, everyone at work LOVES it on me. It's still growing on me though. It's just been a minute since I've had short hair.
I'm a little confused about my hair though. Because my new growth was extremely soft. But my TWA is hard and kinky. But if I run my fingers through the middle of my hair (meaning in between the scalp and ends), it's soft. So why are my ends so hard and kinky???
I go to a natural stylist today. I think I will get a twistout or coilout. And I will post more pictures. Oh yeah, I have updated my Fotki to show the BC. The password is softhair. Check it out!! Oh yeah, and thanks to ALL of you ladies for being my support system, for answering my questions when I PMed you, for asking questions that I had as well, and for giving me the courage to start this journey in the first place.
The next day, I wore a fall. And that night I did twists, for a twistout the next day. The second day, I took the twists out. And I got the confidence to rock my TWA to work. I know, after all that on how I admired those that had the confidence to rock the TWA. Now I can admire myself too.
I figured, if I totally disregarded how my HUSBAND felt about my hair, why the H%$# should I care about what people at work thought. So, I wore my hair out. And to boost my confidence even more, everyone at work LOVES it on me. It's still growing on me though. It's just been a minute since I've had short hair.I'm a little confused about my hair though. Because my new growth was extremely soft. But my TWA is hard and kinky. But if I run my fingers through the middle of my hair (meaning in between the scalp and ends), it's soft. So why are my ends so hard and kinky???
I go to a natural stylist today. I think I will get a twistout or coilout. And I will post more pictures. Oh yeah, I have updated my Fotki to show the BC. The password is softhair. Check it out!! Oh yeah, and thanks to ALL of you ladies for being my support system, for answering my questions when I PMed you, for asking questions that I had as well, and for giving me the courage to start this journey in the first place.
Congratulations Ms. Twana 
Yay! You did it!!!
, but, gained a PM buddy along the way!!!! 
I'm so happy for you!
Last night was my first time asking him his opinion. He hadn't said ANYTHING about it before then. Not ONE word. Before I figured he was going with the "If you don't have anything nice to say, do say anything" motto. The first night or two, he barely even looked at me. Which hurt very badly because then I felt unattactive to my husband. Who wants that?? But now he's back to normal. It will just take him a while. I'm being patient with him. 
No, I just grabbed hair and did single two-strand twists. I tried to make rows as much as possible as I grabbed hair. I don't remember what I used the first time, but the second time, I used Paul Mitchell foaming stuff.
