Get your girl game on
http://www.marriedmansexlife.com/2011/04/girl-game-have-long-hair.html
my comments are bolded
Girl Game: Have Long Hair
Long hair is a marker for physical good health, is a feminine appearance marker and the overwhelming majority of men are attracted to long hair. Most husbands react to their wives lopping all their hair into some sort of short pixie cut quite badly. Kinda the same way you would react if he suddenly announced he'd shortened his c*** to two inches long. You're not going to really say anything, just make that strangling sound in your throat and hope that it can eventually grow back.
And yes I know, long hair is more work to take care of. Yes I know washing baby puke out of your hair is disgusting. Yes I know having a toddler deciding to latch onto your hair and rappel down the back of the couch is annoying.
Men really like it though. Shoulder lenght is just fine, anything past your mid-back starts seeming to be a little long. No need to go Rapuzel on us.
[I totally disagree with that statement-grow it as long as you want]
Dozens of times in my life I've experienced having one of those mild background crush feelings for a woman, instantly disappear as soon as she cuts her hair very short. I mean seriously, real feelings of attraction just instantly gone. Monday I was into you with your pretty shoulder length hair; Tuesday morning arrived and you walked in with it trimmed away to not all that much, and I have no more attraction to you.
Of course all her friends and coworkers just love her new hair style! Of course they would, she just botched her appearance and if she falls off the top of the sexy ladder, everyone else gets to move up a place. So like OMG I just love it!
Some men even are more attracted to a particular hair color. I'm a blonde guy. One of the serious attraction points Jennifer had to me when I met her was her wonderful blonde hair. By "wonderful blonde hair" I mean badly-damaged-with-an-accidental-bleaching-incident when I met her, but wow I loved it. She's actually brunette, which to me is "meh whatever".
In the middle of last year she actually reverted back to her natural hair color by dying it back that way. She liked it, all her friends and coworkers just loved it, loved it, loved it. Me... "meh whatever". Jennifer with blonde hair is a solid 9 to me. Jennifer with whatever that crap her natural hair color was is a 7 or maybe 8 to me. I can't help myself feeling that change in emotion. I'm not going to divorce her for being brunette, I'm just going to be less into her.
I didn't make a stink or anything, I actually tried hard to not be bothered by it or complain about it. I don't think I said anything about it, but a few months back all the blonde highlighting mysteriously returned. The little boost of my attraction returned as well. Attraction is not controllable.
The other easy move with long hair is the classic girlish pony tail. Probably not something to wear to the office if you're out of the twenties and single cohort,
[again who says a ponytail belongs to a certain age group so not true] but there's no reason why you can just sweep it up like that on the weekend once in a while. You can be 52 and rock a pony tail around the house on a Saturday morning. It's a strong "look I'm a girl" statement. Seriously, why not try it? Mess with him a bit, tease him a little and then just swish your pony tail into the distance with an over the shoulder look like you used to....
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I will do a length check soon before my S&D trim to see where I'm at but I'm still not sure I want to flat iron I this heat just for a length check.
The only interesting point is the idea that other women cheer you more for getting a short cut than men; I have noticed that, but I didn't think it was because women were competing for rank places on an attractiveness scale, 
, but I am still down for the cause and want to support my Hair Sisters! - I will probably be at hip again by the end of this year. *off to find recent hair shot*
