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This is a pretty long read, so bear with me...ffrant:
Some of you may remember that I got engaged last month to my fiancee of a year and some change. Prior to me, he dated his ex-girlfriend for three years and they broke up around 2005 or so. She was younger than him, immature, and they just argued a lot. (I did my investigating.) While they were dating he had bought her a cell phone and had the plan under his name (he was paying it up until they broke up). While dating me, she still had this phone plan. I stressed to him that it was pertinent that he handle that so that the communication is cut once and for all.
When my SO's father passed away in September, a lot of his family and friends called to give condolences and she was one them. That was fine, after all she knew his dad and it was respectable. I figured after this, it would be the last time I'd be hearing from her.
Today while at work, my SO informs me that either sometime last night or this morning, his ex sent him a picture: it was the two of them when they were together and she wrote "Look what I found.. Do you remember?" He called her back and asked why she would send that to him; they were together for 3 years and that wasn't the first or last picture that they'd taken. Then she says "I didn't think it would be a problem, it's us when we were dating." He goes on to tell her that that was disrespectful and "What if Stephanie saw it before you explaining anything? Do you know how bad that would've become?"
This dumb &*%# says "Well, my boyfriend (YES LADIES AND SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!) doesn't have a problem with it, in fact I talk about you a lot to him and he's okay with it, I don't see why she should get mad." Umm... maybe because I'm a woman and I know psychologically what you were trying to do, you dip$@#%^! (God, forgive me for my cussin'.) So anyway, he informs her that our anniversary is coming up on Saturday and that he bought me an engagement ring and that he plans on proposing to me.
Back it up, because we're already engaged. I snapped and asked him why would he say that instead of just telling the truth to her, and he said he didn't want to hurt her feelings. Anyway, do you know what this broad did?
...She STARTED CRYING! Crying and asking why, and all this other BS. They get off the phone (I don't exactly know how, I'll interrogate that mess when he gets home). He calls me and informs me, and I'm sitting at my desk ready to and :hardslap:this girl out.
Now I give him kudos for telling me the truth, because he could've just deleted the picture and never told me anything, but the fact still remains that what happened is completely and utterly disrespectful and I will not tolerate that nonsense for nothin'. I cut my exes off because they only lead to drama and its almost a proven fact that once you stop dating, you CANNOT just be friends.
Now I've let this heifer slide with the few other instances because it was understandable, but this is going WAAAAY overboard.
Anyway, I needed to vent. I'll update once SO gets home from work.
Some of you may remember that I got engaged last month to my fiancee of a year and some change. Prior to me, he dated his ex-girlfriend for three years and they broke up around 2005 or so. She was younger than him, immature, and they just argued a lot. (I did my investigating.) While they were dating he had bought her a cell phone and had the plan under his name (he was paying it up until they broke up). While dating me, she still had this phone plan. I stressed to him that it was pertinent that he handle that so that the communication is cut once and for all.
When my SO's father passed away in September, a lot of his family and friends called to give condolences and she was one them. That was fine, after all she knew his dad and it was respectable. I figured after this, it would be the last time I'd be hearing from her.
Today while at work, my SO informs me that either sometime last night or this morning, his ex sent him a picture: it was the two of them when they were together and she wrote "Look what I found.. Do you remember?" He called her back and asked why she would send that to him; they were together for 3 years and that wasn't the first or last picture that they'd taken. Then she says "I didn't think it would be a problem, it's us when we were dating." He goes on to tell her that that was disrespectful and "What if Stephanie saw it before you explaining anything? Do you know how bad that would've become?"
This dumb &*%# says "Well, my boyfriend (YES LADIES AND SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!) doesn't have a problem with it, in fact I talk about you a lot to him and he's okay with it, I don't see why she should get mad." Umm... maybe because I'm a woman and I know psychologically what you were trying to do, you dip$@#%^! (God, forgive me for my cussin'.) So anyway, he informs her that our anniversary is coming up on Saturday and that he bought me an engagement ring and that he plans on proposing to me.
Back it up, because we're already engaged. I snapped and asked him why would he say that instead of just telling the truth to her, and he said he didn't want to hurt her feelings. Anyway, do you know what this broad did?
...She STARTED CRYING! Crying and asking why, and all this other BS. They get off the phone (I don't exactly know how, I'll interrogate that mess when he gets home). He calls me and informs me, and I'm sitting at my desk ready to and :hardslap:this girl out.
Now I give him kudos for telling me the truth, because he could've just deleted the picture and never told me anything, but the fact still remains that what happened is completely and utterly disrespectful and I will not tolerate that nonsense for nothin'. I cut my exes off because they only lead to drama and its almost a proven fact that once you stop dating, you CANNOT just be friends.
Now I've let this heifer slide with the few other instances because it was understandable, but this is going WAAAAY overboard.
Anyway, I needed to vent. I'll update once SO gets home from work.