Hello Ladies,
Did any of you read the ring formula? What did you think? I think it had some good points concerning the male mind. I am in a relationship, but though I read much of what he said before in other texts, I see some things that I just did not get and I guess it is similar to some of your comments from the WMLB thread. He is not saying be like a B, but he is saying slow down, let there be a chase, do not emasculate men, but also do not let them do anything they want without letting them know it is wrong.
His book is on the conservative side and he calls for submission and cooking which many do not have a problem with. One thing that I do not do enough is touch, and he mentioned that men need and like that.
He also talked about men loving women who were confident, exciting, and those that knew they were a prize. That was on of his main points. He repeatedly discussed women as assets to men and that we need to understand that about the wife/husband dynamic. He also said that wheter we like it or not me will not settle for just any wife, she has to have it all to get the ring ( all of what they want which varies as you all know). They will date you, live with you, make booty calls to you, but if you are not the one, you will not get the ring.
He gave good advice that I am sure will work to help you get the guy, but he at the time he wrote the book, was not married. He seems to have a fairytale, idyllic attitude, but I guess if you expect ease you will get it lol. I think he can help you get the ring, but he appears inexperienced when it comes to the marriage part.
Did any of you read the ring formula? What did you think? I think it had some good points concerning the male mind. I am in a relationship, but though I read much of what he said before in other texts, I see some things that I just did not get and I guess it is similar to some of your comments from the WMLB thread. He is not saying be like a B, but he is saying slow down, let there be a chase, do not emasculate men, but also do not let them do anything they want without letting them know it is wrong.
His book is on the conservative side and he calls for submission and cooking which many do not have a problem with. One thing that I do not do enough is touch, and he mentioned that men need and like that.
He also talked about men loving women who were confident, exciting, and those that knew they were a prize. That was on of his main points. He repeatedly discussed women as assets to men and that we need to understand that about the wife/husband dynamic. He also said that wheter we like it or not me will not settle for just any wife, she has to have it all to get the ring ( all of what they want which varies as you all know). They will date you, live with you, make booty calls to you, but if you are not the one, you will not get the ring.
He gave good advice that I am sure will work to help you get the guy, but he at the time he wrote the book, was not married. He seems to have a fairytale, idyllic attitude, but I guess if you expect ease you will get it lol. I think he can help you get the ring, but he appears inexperienced when it comes to the marriage part.
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