TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
OK... a coworker of mine pulled a "Something New" fix-up on me, and I am not sure what to do. She called me yesterday all excited about meeting a friend of hers she told all about me. She informed me that he was from her home town, and that he is white.
I had to take some deep breaths. I have to be honest about this... I can look at white men and appreciate an attractive one, and I have tried to entertain dating outside my race, but I am having a hard time with this one. First of all, she is from Ashland, KENTUCKY!!!!!!!!!! That in itself scares me. I just have this fear that he may be "open minded" but I would venture to say that his parents probably aren't (I know that's not fair since I haven't met them...)
I dunno. I have lived in the South all my life, and I just have this stereotype in my head about "Southern" white folks. If he would have said he was the son of hippies from the West Coast, I would have been with it, but I am terrified.
Does that make me racist? I just feel like white folks don't "get" it, and I don't want the extra pressure of explaining it to someone. I want to say "No", but this could be a really great guy.
I REALLY hate dating...
I had to take some deep breaths. I have to be honest about this... I can look at white men and appreciate an attractive one, and I have tried to entertain dating outside my race, but I am having a hard time with this one. First of all, she is from Ashland, KENTUCKY!!!!!!!!!! That in itself scares me. I just have this fear that he may be "open minded" but I would venture to say that his parents probably aren't (I know that's not fair since I haven't met them...)
I dunno. I have lived in the South all my life, and I just have this stereotype in my head about "Southern" white folks. If he would have said he was the son of hippies from the West Coast, I would have been with it, but I am terrified.
Does that make me racist? I just feel like white folks don't "get" it, and I don't want the extra pressure of explaining it to someone. I want to say "No", but this could be a really great guy.
I REALLY hate dating...