Anticipatience08
Well-Known Member
It's funny...since I've become active on LHCF, I have found this is one of the few places I can talk about wearing a weave. Outside of this bubble, though, it hasn't been so easy.
I constantly hear snide comments and snarky remarks about the fact that I wear a weave. And it gets to be pretty annoying at times!
To be honest, I used to wear them because I wasn't happy with my hair. Then I decided to go natural and I wore them while I transitioned. And now, I'm using them during my HHJ--for now, at least.
But the comments from other people, especially other women, can be a bit much at times. Many times, I've got way more hair than the women who have something negative to say. But the assumption is always that I must be bald. Or I don't love myself. Or if I wear fake hair, I must be a fake person. Yadda yadda yadda...
It often feels like, with the people who do this that know me, have used the fact that I wear extensions as the thing that they can pick at about me since they assume they can't go after anything else. So childish!!
Consider this my first LHCF rant
I constantly hear snide comments and snarky remarks about the fact that I wear a weave. And it gets to be pretty annoying at times!
To be honest, I used to wear them because I wasn't happy with my hair. Then I decided to go natural and I wore them while I transitioned. And now, I'm using them during my HHJ--for now, at least.
But the comments from other people, especially other women, can be a bit much at times. Many times, I've got way more hair than the women who have something negative to say. But the assumption is always that I must be bald. Or I don't love myself. Or if I wear fake hair, I must be a fake person. Yadda yadda yadda...
It often feels like, with the people who do this that know me, have used the fact that I wear extensions as the thing that they can pick at about me since they assume they can't go after anything else. So childish!!
Consider this my first LHCF rant