FunkyMunky
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I'm sure many of you have heard about "The Cave."
The place your SO's mind goes to when he seems distant and not 100% focused on you or your relationship. Sometimes, he may be focused on work/project, he may have an issue or problem he is trying to solve, he may be tired, he may need a break from the love and romance, etc...
During this period, a lot of women feel like their man don't care about them or the relationship, that something is wrong in the relationship, that they are working harder at keeping things together etc...
Then after he has had time to recuperate or whatever he comes out of the cave as if he was never gone. Acting sweet and romantic, feeling good again. :superman:
I am not referring to men that are cheating!
So, how does your man act when he goes into his cave and what does he do in your opinion that harms your relationship while he is in there.
Do you feel like you put more work into the relationship at that time?
Does he call less?
Does he text less?
Does he seem distracted?
Does he act like he is on his period?
Does he act like he is busy nearly every minute of the day? :dollar:
Does he seem to not really listen when you are talking?
Is he more irritable/argumentative?
Does he seem less interested in initiating sex? :work4sex:
Is he less attentive?
Does he start spending more time alone? :ban2:
Does he seem less motivated, lazy or depressed?
Does he spend more time with his friends or family?
Does he party for a few days as if he was a caged animal?
These are all examples abd this question applies to people living together and separately.
What does your man do while he is in the cave and how long does he usually stay in there?
The place your SO's mind goes to when he seems distant and not 100% focused on you or your relationship. Sometimes, he may be focused on work/project, he may have an issue or problem he is trying to solve, he may be tired, he may need a break from the love and romance, etc...
During this period, a lot of women feel like their man don't care about them or the relationship, that something is wrong in the relationship, that they are working harder at keeping things together etc...
Then after he has had time to recuperate or whatever he comes out of the cave as if he was never gone. Acting sweet and romantic, feeling good again. :superman:
I am not referring to men that are cheating!
So, how does your man act when he goes into his cave and what does he do in your opinion that harms your relationship while he is in there.
Do you feel like you put more work into the relationship at that time?
Does he call less?
Does he text less?
Does he seem distracted?
Does he act like he is on his period?
Does he act like he is busy nearly every minute of the day? :dollar:
Does he seem to not really listen when you are talking?
Is he more irritable/argumentative?
Does he seem less interested in initiating sex? :work4sex:
Is he less attentive?
Does he start spending more time alone? :ban2:
Does he seem less motivated, lazy or depressed?
Does he spend more time with his friends or family?
Does he party for a few days as if he was a caged animal?
These are all examples abd this question applies to people living together and separately.
What does your man do while he is in the cave and how long does he usually stay in there?