The Catalyst for Your Obsession? * LONG*

Brooke007

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While I’m sure that this info has been covered in numerous posts I thought I’d share: I was looking through some of my files and found the internet file that started my quest for healthy long hair. I found this message by accident while searching for something totally unrelated to hair care and it intrigued me to learn more. Do you recall what peaked your interest and started you on your journey to healthy hair?
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Note our own Adrienne was a former member. I wonder how many of the others are right here at LHCF?
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This is a list of the original members of the Relaxed Sub Club: adrienne0914, alyce_19, cokoqt, comi1_2000, davine, debo1986, devcon0921, dianalynn79, essencegrl28, k_addy24, mariaat40, miss_korea_ladyswan, nik4God, niroral2, protege00_99, somebodysbabygirl, todamor, and tsangeldog.
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This is the November 8, 2000 edition of the Relaxed Sub Club’s regimen. It should be viewed as a guideline only. All members should note that EVERYthing does not work for EVERYbody. You have flexibility in your use of products as well as adhering to the guidelines.

PRE-SHAMPOO TREATMENT
A pre-shampoo treatment is any treatment done prior to the shampoo. The treatment can be used to address hair or scalp issues.
· When using oils as a pre-shampoo treatment, it is recommended that they be used on damp/wet hair versus dry. Your available time will dictate how long the oils should be left on the hair.
· Some suggestions for oil treatments include chia, flax, hemp, and kukui because they are EFA oils, which contain both omega-3 and omega-6 essential fatty acids.
· When dealing with scalp issues members need to determine the severity of the problem and when to seek the assistance of a medical professional.

SCALP MASSAGES
· Massages offer a means to get/keep the circulation going in the scalp.
· They should be done twice daily. Not only are they good for circulation, but for stress as well.
· Massages can be done on wet or dry hair during the pre-shampoo, shampoo, or during the day. However, if done on wet hair, make sure that you are massaging your scalp and NOT manipulating your hair. It can also tangle if there is significant new growth.
· There are some scalp massage instructions on this site:
**Edited to remove non-working link** Click on archives at the top, and then click on the article, "Scalp Sense".

SHAMPOO
· The hair should be washed a minimum of twice per week, but no more than every other day. One of these washings could be a simple rinsing, without shampoo, followed by Nexxus Ensure Acidifying Conditioner.
Some recommended shampoos are:
- Aubrey's Blue Chamomile
- Aubrey's J.A.Y.
- Aubrey's White Camellia
- Crème of Nature Yellow
- Motions Moisturizing
- Dax's Vegetable Oil Jojoba by Mill Creek
- Dr. Bronner’s ORS Uplifting Shampoo
- Ion Moisturizing Pantene for Dry & Damaged
- Neutrogena Clarifying
- Paul Mitchell's The Shampoo
- Sebastian Laminates Cello Shampoo

ACIDIFYING CONDITIONER
· An Acidifying Conditioner should be used each time you wash your hair. Acidifiers close the hair cuticle, impart shine and add elasticity.
· This should be the last conditioner used. If you experience increased tangling after using your acidifying conditioner, follow up with a detangling conditioner.
Some recommended acidifiers are:
- Apple Cider Vinegar diluted with water (1:4 vinegar-to-water ratio)
- ARTec’s Kiwi Moisture Pac
- L'anza Chemical Balancer
- L'anza The Detangler
- Nexxus Ensure (HIGHLY RECOMMENDED)
- Paul Mitchell Detangler
- Paul Mitchell Finishing Rinse
- Paul Mitchell Seal and Shine (this is a spray)
Note: A generic brand can be substituted.
REGULAR CONDITIONER
· You should condition after every shampoo.
Some recommended conditioners are:
- Aphogee Protein Treatment
- Aphogee Reconstructor
- Aubrey GPB
- Aubrey's Island Naturals Crème Rinse
- Dudley's Protein Conditioner
- Joico K-Pak
- Loreal's Nature Therapy Mega Nurturing Crème
- LeKair Cholesterol
- Motions CPR
- Motions Moisture Plus
- Optimum Moisture Rich Conditioner
- ORS Mayo Jojoba Conditioner
- Pantene Deep Fortifying Treatment

PROTEIN DEEP CONDITIONING
· You can use a protein deep conditioner once a week, but do not overdo these. They can make the hair shaft swell, and too much protein will make the hair look frizzy.
· A protein conditioner can be mixed with a moisturizing conditioner.
· Consistent protein conditioning is a must for relaxed hair.
· For the most effective deep conditioning treatment, you can coat damp hair with conditioner, and cover it with a plastic bag. Microwave a wet towel (with CAUTION) for 1 minute, and wrap the towel around the plastic bag. While a heating cap, or hooded dryer can be substituted for the microwaved towel, the emphasis should be placed on STEAM heat. Steam heat is more moisturizing to the hair during deep conditioning treatments and is more effective than dry heat.

LEAVE-IN CONDITIONER
· The use of a leave-in conditioner is encouraged.
Some recommended leave-ins are:
- African Pride Leave-in
- African Royal Leave-in
- At one with Nature Leave-in
- Aussie Hair Insurance
- Avon Dry Ends Serum
- Crème of Nature Herbal Rich Leave-in
- Infusium 23
- Isoplus 24-hr Leave-in
- Salon Selectives Leave-in
- Sebastian Laminates Leave-in
- Sebastian Potion 9
- 911 Pantene Fortifying Leave-in
Note: Some members are using Monoi oil as a leave-in.

TOWEL DRYING HAIR
· After completing the shampooing and conditioning process, the hair should be patted dry. Due to the fragile state of wet relaxed hair, you should not wrap it in a towel, wring it out, nor brush it.

DETANGLING HAIR
· Do not rush through this process because you are more apt to damage your hair.
· Detangle as much as possible using your fingers first.
· Never tug or rake through the hair.
· Use a wide-tooth comb and a leave-in conditioner to ease the comb out.
· Comb the hair from the bottom up, meaning start by combing out the ends and then gradually work your way toward the roots.

DRYING
· Usually the weather, or your time constraints will determine which method you use to dry your hair.
Some recommended drying methods:
- Air drying
- Doobies (wet roller set followed with a wrap on the dried hair)
- Hooded or bonnet hair dryer
- Ponytail Method
- Wet roller sets
- Wraps
HEAT
· The use of heating appliances such as blow dryers, curling irons, or other sources of extreme heat should be eliminated or kept to a bare minimum.
· If this is a difficult habit to stop, then consider gradually reducing your usage.
· It is important to use a heat protectant prior to applying the heat. This will help to minimize the amount of damage associated with overuse.

HAIR MANIPULATION
· Comb/Brush/Manipulate your hair as little as possible, preferably no more than once a day.
· Finger combing should be considered as an alternative to combing.

PROTECTING ENDS
· Your ends should be protected on a daily basis.
Some suggestions include:
- Shea butter
- Oil of your choice (Jojoba or olive oil are highly recommended.)

PROTECTIVE STYLES
· Hair should be kept in a protective style the majority of the time.
Protective styles include:
- Bantus
- Braids (corn rows, french braids, or regular braids)
- Buns (put shea butter/oil on the ends)
- French Rolls (put shea butter/oil on the ends)
- Knots
- Ponytails (put shea butter/oil on the ends)
- Twists

RELAXER/TOUCH-UPS
· Investigate your relaxer. Try to purchase/use a relaxer in the 9-10 pH range.
· No-lye relaxers defat the scalp. Add an EFA oil to your relaxer. (Aphogee makes an EFA oil for this purpose.)
· Limit relaxer retouches to every three (3) months. If this causes breakage for you, you can retouch no less than 8 weeks after your last retouch.
· New growth maintenance will allow you to extend the time between touch-ups. A soft texture should be attainable through constant moisturizing. Carrot oil and jojoba oil are recommended
· The scalp should not be invigorated for at least 24 hours prior to a relaxer or touch-up. This means no combing, brushing, scratching, shampooing, track or braid removal. If the scalp is invigorated before a relaxer, it will allow the relaxer to penetrate into the follicle of the hair, and could result in the hair shedding or just falling out.
· Prior to a touch-up, the hair that has already been processed should be coated with a heavy oil or a conditioner like Queene Helene Cholesterol Treatment to prevent overlapping.
· Apply the relaxer according to product instructions making sure that you apply it quickly enough to remain within the time constraints.
· A relaxer should be applied to the most resistant or coarse hair first. The hairline should be relaxed last.
· Leave the relaxer on your hair for the length of time designated on the product instructions. Start timing your relaxer from the first moment you apply it to your hair.
The general rule of thumb is:
- For fine or previously damaged hair the relaxer should not be left on any longer than 13 minutes
- For medium-strength or slightly damaged hair the relaxer should not be left on any longer than
15 minutes
- For coarse, resistant or minimally damaged hair the relaxer should not be left on any longer than
20 minutes

NOTE: While these time constraints are guidelines and could vary depending on the texture and condition of your hair, they should not be EXCEEDED under any circumstances.
· Thoroughly rinse the relaxer from your hair.
· Apply a conditioner while the cuticle is still open and before using a neutralizing shampoo.

Suggestion: Use Hi-Pro Pac conditioner and leave in the hair for 3 minutes. Even though the relaxer is rinsed out before the Hi-Pro Pac conditioner is applied, the hair is not neutralized yet so there could still be some processing going on. Therefore, you should consider the 3 minutes associated with leaving in the Hi-Pro Pac conditioner as the overall time to leave in the relaxer.

In other words:
- If the relaxer should be left in for 13 minutes, that time would now be reduced to 10 minutes.
- If the relaxer should be left in for 15 minutes, that time would now be reduced to 12 minutes.
- If the relaxer should be left in for 20 minutes, that time would now be reduced to 17 minutes.

· Wash with neutralizing shampoo three times to ensure that all of the relaxer is out of the hair.
· Follow with the Nexxus Ensure Acidifying conditioner to close the cuticle.
· It is recommended that you apply a balsam conditioner last to seal the cuticle.
· Take care not to pull on the hair after it has been relaxed. It is still in a fragile state.
· Hair should not be shampooed again until at least two days after a relaxer.

HAIR COLORING
· Color a relaxer, never relax a color. Always do your relaxer touch ups BEFORE you do your color retouches.
· Wait at least 2-3 weeks after a relaxer retouch before applying color.
· When coloring new growth, be sure that the color is applied to the new growth only.
· Add EFA oil to your hair color, (safflower oil recommended).
· Follow the color with the Hi-pro Pac conditioner.

TRIMMING HAIR
· Invest in a pair of scissors specifically designed for cutting hair and only use them for
that purpose.
· Trim split ends as frequently as your hair dictates.
· Have your ends trimmed EVERY time your hair is relaxed or touched up.

SUPPLEMENTS
· Take at least a multi-vitamin and/or multi-mineral supplement.
· Consult with a medical professional when considering taking supplements beyond the basics,
particularly if you already have a medical condition or a particular medical condition runs in your family.
· Other supplements worth investigating
- B-Complex (Note: If you take any of the individual B's, it is important that you ALSO take a B-complex to keep everything balanced.)
- Hair/Skin/Nails supplements
- EFA’s (Black Currant Oil, Borage Oil, Evening Primrose Oil, Flaxseed Oil)

HAIR CARE EQUIPMENT/SUPPLIES
Invest in a:
· Seamless comb or a detangler
· Heating Cap

WATER
· Water consumption is critical to your overall health.
· The general rule of thumb when determining how much water is enough, is to drink ½ of your body weight in ounces. For example, if you weigh 120 lbs. then your water consumption would be a minimum of 60 ozs. per day.
· It is important that you drink "clean" water. Your water can be purchased or you can consider the cheaper alternative of a filter for your faucet or a pitcher that has a filter in it.

Prepared by: Amor, Ari, and Niz

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Thanks Brooke007. I can never read enough. Its good to know that with consistency and enduring our work will pay off.
 
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Tracy said:
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I'm "todamor" aka "Amor"
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How funny is THAT!
Dude - I sure was involved....!

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THAT was a lot of work in preparing that information. Thank you Amor!

You're welcome Crownnglori--I too cannot get too much info.
 
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Brooke007 said:
Do you recall what peaked your interest and started you on your journey to healthy hair?
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Yep, I remember...
I was experiencing postpartum (excessive) hair shedding
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. I thought I was goin' bald! So I fired up the computer & got busy.

My first hair community was on EZ board...Relaxed hair care, I believe is the name. Every so often I still post there. Anywho, someone from that board referred to this one, & I've been here ever since.... (that was Aug 02)
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Now, healthy long (( natural )) hair is my luv
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hey!!! i remember the relaxed subclub! those women were SERIOUS about their research. lil ole me was just along for the ride!!
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i originally started my quest after learning about and wasting my money on HF37. there was a link on their site posted by devjam talking about BHSGO. i went there and joined in june 2000. it seems like forever since those days. i'm happy (and still shocked) with my progress!!
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ohmigod! this was my holygrail when i first started my hair journey via internet. i remember the ever elusive bhsgo and then the club at yahoo. i've "known" tracy and adrienne for a looong time.lol
Adrienne- have you talked to charli? is she over here too?
...those were the days...
 
I first stumbled across BlackHairCare, and then I stumbled across BHSGO. I remember quite a few posters, adrienne is one of them, I remember when she was doing the first 365 day challenge. I remember contemplating natural with Portae99, but I didn't and continued to relax. I was sexy178. I wonder what most of the members are doing right now? I also migrated to longhairlovers.

I also remember Devcon, I wish her page was still up. I really liked that page. I'm just rambling away.

I remember the questionnaire that I filled out. Too bad the club is no longer on yahoo.
 
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PORTAE!!!!!!! She had BEEYOUTIFUL hair....

Skee your hair kinda reminds me of hers!

Brooke - your welcome honey but I can EVEN take the true credit - Niz and Ari were HARDCORE!
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Ari was, like, BORN to be a mother/organizer/researcher
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and Niz kept us all on schedule....

We were just so curious about so many things - you know? I'm glad it helped so many people and everything we found out was a really a collective effort of the entire group.

Those were the good old days...
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LHCF reminds me a LOT of BHSGO. It only got "exclusive" toward the end. But that first six months to a year was really a wonderful breaking in period for me on hari groups.
 
caralexis, no charli isn't over here... yet. she's over at BHCAB where quite a few of the BHSGO migrated to. right now she's really busy at a new job that she recently started. so she's hardly there much either...
 
The catalyst for me was Wanakee's advertisement in either Essence or Ebony magazine.
It showed the picture of her with waist length hair and had the words - No Extension, No Weave, No Kidding - on it.
 
Funny to see my name on the list. I've been here for quite some time - just in lurk mode. But I love it!
 
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Mariaat40 said:
Funny to see my name on the list. I've been here for quite some time - just in lurk mode. But I love it!

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I certainly didn't mean to call you or anyone else out like that Mariaat40. But I'm glad it brought you out of lurk mode even if just for a minute.
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Do you recall what peaked your interest and started you on your journey to healthy hair?

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A friend of mine (she's on this board, too
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) knows how much I love wrestling. On the OT board at BHC they were talking about wrestling and she sent me a link. This was around 1998 or 99. I ventured over to the hair board and discovered that everything I was doing to my hair was WRONG, WRONG WRONG!!!!! Before BHC I thought black women with nice hair were "lucky". It never occured to me that a lot of women have to work at it because everyone I knew with healthy, past shoulder length hair had the same crappy hair care practices. I remember saying something stupid like, "What's wrong with petrolatum and mineral oil? It's in every product and they use them at the salon so it can't be that bad."
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I have always liked buying new skin and hair products, but BHC really sent me over the edge!
 
WOW!
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I didn't know u had to do all that conditioning and all that other stuff to maintain healthy hair! That's too much for me but I'll try some of them.
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I just added this to my favorites!
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*bump* Interesting info. Question: What exactly was the Relaxed Sub-Club? Is it still around.

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It was a part of the Black Hair Super Grow Out (BHSGO) Yahoo club. The club was closed a while back. I was a member. It was a great club.
 
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The catalyst for me was Wanakee's advertisement in either Essence or Ebony magazine.
It showed the picture of her with waist length hair and had the words - No Extension, No Weave, No Kidding - on it.


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ME TOO! I bought her products and followed her tips and I remember my mom seeing me a few months later and saying, "Your hair's longer!"

Then I joined BHC, Hair Boutique and Naturallycurly.com. I now frequent this site, Naturallycurly.com and Nappturality for not only hair tips, but cool discussions with some of the most intelligent and positive women I've ever encountered!
 
It happened around July 2003. I had just removed some human hair braids and the right side of my hairline was literally bald from the braids. I searched the internet on Black hair growth and came across Cathy Howse's website and I guess reading everything on her site and eventually ordering her book and products were the catalyst. Around November 2003, I joined hair forums and in February 2004 [hairline had already "filled in"] I started a healthy hair routine.
 
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I had a similar experience as Lanelle, I had long hair before joining the hairboards but when I moved, it started falling out due to the hard water (which I didn't discover till waaaay after the fact) So after so much of my hair falling out, I started looking for ideas to regrow my hair and I stumbled across this wonderful, magical hair board!
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Thanks for posting this! /images/graemlins/drunk.gif By the way, what is <font color="red">BHCAB </font> ?
 
I started grad school and could not afford to see a stylist on the regs, I started keeping my hair it grew, I was using the right products but I cut off 2 -3 inches every 3-4 months like clockwork because the ends were frizzy, frayed, broken pieces, dry, hard whereas the rest of the hair was shiny and soft. and I was sick of it. I thought I wanted to learn how to do a rollerset because my styist always did them for me and my ends were on point. So I figured rollersets would be my solution. Now I know so much and I love love my hair. I know I will have a lifetime of healthy hair because of LHCF.
 
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Lanelle said:
*bump* Interesting info. Question: What exactly was the Relaxed Sub-Club? Is it still around.

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It was a part of the Black Hair Super Grow Out (BHSGO) Yahoo club. The club was closed a while back. I was a member. It was a great club.

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Is there anyway to pull up the archives or old files? I tried searching on the internet but came up short. Also, what does BHCAB stand for?
 
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