TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
...so last night we had another "girls night out" and the age-old topic of "when to give it up" came up...again.
First, we all know the "sanctified" response of waiting until marriage. That response need not apply here. That ship has more than sailed in this group of women. Besides, I waited with my ex husband (neither of us were virgins but chose to be celibate until marriage)--BIG MISTAKE!!!!
Anywho... it's always interesting to get varied points of view. In the age of the "Act Like A Lady..." 90-day rule; to the "X" date rule; to the get it out of the way philosophy, there seems to be no consensus as to what constitutes the right amount of time or dates to wait.
Likewise, there are no formulas that guarantee the success or failure of a relationship based on how long couples DO wait to jump in the sack. I have seen successful marriages that started from sex on the first date. On the other hand, I've known couples that waited and the relationship ended soon afterwards or didn't last for whatever reason.
So... I'm posing the question again:
When do you think is the right TIME to open your crayon box? Please elaborate on why you feel this way. Thanks!
First, we all know the "sanctified" response of waiting until marriage. That response need not apply here. That ship has more than sailed in this group of women. Besides, I waited with my ex husband (neither of us were virgins but chose to be celibate until marriage)--BIG MISTAKE!!!!
Anywho... it's always interesting to get varied points of view. In the age of the "Act Like A Lady..." 90-day rule; to the "X" date rule; to the get it out of the way philosophy, there seems to be no consensus as to what constitutes the right amount of time or dates to wait.
Likewise, there are no formulas that guarantee the success or failure of a relationship based on how long couples DO wait to jump in the sack. I have seen successful marriages that started from sex on the first date. On the other hand, I've known couples that waited and the relationship ended soon afterwards or didn't last for whatever reason.
So... I'm posing the question again:
When do you think is the right TIME to open your crayon box? Please elaborate on why you feel this way. Thanks!
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