BlkOnyx488
Well-Known Member
I rarely wear my hair out nowadays, it's usually braided or wigged up, and often when I take out the braids, it's during a weekend when I have time to braid it back up again, so not a lot of people see my real hair.
Well this past weekend I took my braids out, much to my surprise, so I have been wearing my hair out, Saturday thru Monday it was Straight, by Tueday Morning I missed my FRO so I tossed some water and leave in conditioner on it and brought my FRO to life.
This is where it gets interesting. When people see me THEY HAVE TO COMMENT, It's like the AFRO compels them to give me a compliment but it comes out all well wrong,
like "Ooooh you have your hair poofy today"
or "You are always changing your hair how do you do that?"
or "Was that you blowing at me from your van, I saw your hair and I thought I don't know anyone with round hair"
The fun ones are the compliments with scalp touch
"Oh wow you should were your hair like this more often" scalp touch
Like the Afro is public domain or something.
My Favorite are the Sistas who don't make any comments but they stare like they mad under their breath.
And then the precious honest innocent children get caught up in the Afro effect, I was dropping my boys off at school this morning and a few of the children know me because I teach Zumbatomic afterschool there so a couple of my lil' ladies saw me and they said
"What happen your hair? Make it longer again!"
I said this is my God given hair this is how it grows out of my head,
then one of them ask. "Why?"
I said, "Because I am Lucky!" and walked away.
The people always act like it's the first time they have every seen a FRO.
It's Funny how the Afro inspires such confusion, concern, and comments, I want to say it's just hair, it's ok it won't hurt you
But then I wouldn't have anything to report back to my LHCF Ladies
Well this past weekend I took my braids out, much to my surprise, so I have been wearing my hair out, Saturday thru Monday it was Straight, by Tueday Morning I missed my FRO so I tossed some water and leave in conditioner on it and brought my FRO to life.
This is where it gets interesting. When people see me THEY HAVE TO COMMENT, It's like the AFRO compels them to give me a compliment but it comes out all well wrong,
like "Ooooh you have your hair poofy today"
or "You are always changing your hair how do you do that?"
or "Was that you blowing at me from your van, I saw your hair and I thought I don't know anyone with round hair"
The fun ones are the compliments with scalp touch
"Oh wow you should were your hair like this more often" scalp touch
Like the Afro is public domain or something.
My Favorite are the Sistas who don't make any comments but they stare like they mad under their breath.
And then the precious honest innocent children get caught up in the Afro effect, I was dropping my boys off at school this morning and a few of the children know me because I teach Zumbatomic afterschool there so a couple of my lil' ladies saw me and they said
"What happen your hair? Make it longer again!"
I said this is my God given hair this is how it grows out of my head,
then one of them ask. "Why?"
I said, "Because I am Lucky!" and walked away.
The people always act like it's the first time they have every seen a FRO.
It's Funny how the Afro inspires such confusion, concern, and comments, I want to say it's just hair, it's ok it won't hurt you
But then I wouldn't have anything to report back to my LHCF Ladies