WhoIAm
Well-Known Member
This is really starting to bug me.
If I exchange numbers with a guy, I expect phone calls and texts occasionally. Don't text me to make plans for a date. Call me. We can use texts to confirm.
Don't text me "wyd" as your first contact for the day. WTF am I supposed to do with that? For all I know that message went out to your "Women" distribution list. I've started ignoring them. And the repeat offenders, I've put SPAM in front of their names. I've also started telling "new recruits" my preference up front. If you can't CALL me, you don't get my number.
Maybe that's the way things work nowadays, but these are men >35. They should know better. I know they dated before texting became common.
Help me. I am so annoyed and I need to know it's not just me. You can also tell me if I am being uptight and if there's a better way to handle this. Thanks.
If I exchange numbers with a guy, I expect phone calls and texts occasionally. Don't text me to make plans for a date. Call me. We can use texts to confirm.
Don't text me "wyd" as your first contact for the day. WTF am I supposed to do with that? For all I know that message went out to your "Women" distribution list. I've started ignoring them. And the repeat offenders, I've put SPAM in front of their names. I've also started telling "new recruits" my preference up front. If you can't CALL me, you don't get my number.
Maybe that's the way things work nowadays, but these are men >35. They should know better. I know they dated before texting became common.
Help me. I am so annoyed and I need to know it's not just me. You can also tell me if I am being uptight and if there's a better way to handle this. Thanks.