Texlax is a term many ladies have come up with to describe lightly relaxing your hair. Instead of the typical 20-25 minutes that a normal relaxer calls for, many ladies are leaving the relaxer on for only 7-15 minutes or adding oils/conditioners to make the relaxer process slower, or instead just using a very mild relaxer. Texlaxing is basically just
INTENTIONALLY underprocessing a relaxer in order not to get bone straight hair.
Texlaxing leaves a lot of the original curl pattern and strength in the hair intact. My texlaxed hair looks ALOT like my unrelaxed new growth to the untrained eye, but is easier to get smooth and straight by rollersetting, flatironing, etc.
Texturizing is using an actual texturizer (Wave Nouveau, Jherri Curl, etc.) to enhance the natural curl pattern of your air.
For some ladies texlaxing works out wonderfully, The texlaxed portions of my hair are muchh stronger than the bone straight ends (which I'm gradudally cutting off). But for some ladies texlaxing is just a detangling nightmare. I will admit it took a lot of trial and error to get my texlaxed hair under control, but in the end I'm happy I'm texlaxing. Again, what works for some, does not work for all.
HTH!