Spolier (insecure) You Cheated And Didn't Get Caught - Do You Confess When Questioned

[LostInAdream]

Is there physical proof? If so, I don't need to say anything. If not, I don't know why I'm being asked such foolishness.

I've cheated before and confessed. I woke up in the middle of the night, rolled over and told him. It was early in the relationship and I was forgiven. I later cheated again I kept that one under wraps. We broke up shortly after as I realized the relationship was the issue not me

I truly believe if you cheat once you'll cheat again until you decide that it's not worth it.

 

[PeaceFlow]

can't imagine fully cheating (intercourse), but if I did it's because I really don't want to be together anymore. Therefore if I was asked I'd admit because I'm obviously not into the relationship anyhoo.

I could never cheat on a nice dude. Either break up with (if not happy), or stay with the nice dude lol. Self sabotage is such an ugly thing.

 

[30something]

Never would ever get me to confess I cheated. I would take that secret with me to the grave and the depths of hell.

 

[God_Favor]

If I still wanted to be with the one I cheated on , I would NEVER tell.

 

[Miss_C]

Why in the world would I confess? Lol.

 

[hopeful]

Never would ever get me to confess I cheated. I would take that secret with me to the grave and the depths of hell.

Not the depths of hell though .

 

[PhonyBaloney500]

On the other side wouldn't you want to know?

 

[Gin&Tonic]

No.

I've cheated in the past on boyfriends and no I would not confess a thing.....

Even in marriage it would affect the divorce proceedings and money and etc

So unless you had me on tape then no, no confession from me...

I wouldn't confess on tape . "Wow she sounds a lot like me." My dirt must be on video. Even then - no confession. I just would stop with the denials.

 

[LovinLea]

can't imagine fully cheating (intercourse), but if I did it's because I really don't want to be together anymore. Therefore if I was asked I'd admit because I'm obviously not into the relationship anyhoo.

I could never cheat on a nice dude. Either break up with (if not happy), or stay with the nice dude lol. Self sabotage is such an ugly thing.

I agree. Instead of leaving like she so clearly wants to , she cheats.

 

[CurlyMoo]

I wouldn't
A boyfriend is nothing special.
I can see how some women would feel mass amounts of guilt and then confess.

 

[CurlyMoo]

On the other side wouldn't you want to know?

This ain't about him, it's about me.
If we are living the good life and I am happy, I would be pissed off he ruined it.

 

[kandake]

So why do women get upset when men lie about cheating? I'm so confused.

 

[LovelyRo]

Deny... deny... deny!!!!

 

[summertimewine]

So why do women get upset when men lie about cheating? I'm so confused.

Because as a woman I can be low down dirty and cheat, but I won't be dumb about it. I will not get pregnant, I wouldn't go out of my way, truly he would never know the wiser. But when men cheat the side *** think she more than she is, she posting pics, you got side babies etc. when anyone cheats its disrespectful. But when a women cheats it's beyond lowkey and imo more respectful if that makes sense. You don't see no women trying to get all her side hoes, and baby daddies and kids together for family pics

 

[Topsido]

Why ever would I want to confess? If I'm caught on camera and unless you can extract DNA from it, it ain't me. Wow, my doppelgänger is gorgeous.

 

[LivingInPeace]

So why do women get upset when men lie about cheating? I'm so confused.

For the same reason women on this board praise gold diggers and aspire to be them but would be livid if gold diggers came after their brothers or sons. Because this is human nature.

 

[FlowerHair]

If I'm cheating on someone that means I don't like them. So I would tell them I'm breaking up with them.

You may need a person for different reasons and want them to stay in your life as well as like them a lot, but you still have sex with another man.

It is what it is...

That said, I would never tell. Ever.

 

[WhereItsAt]

I'm faithful to the game.
No proof.. it didn't happen.
I have no issues with taking that type of secret to the grave...

 

[intellectualuva]

Naw. I'm not saying nothing.

 

[syze6]

Please..taking it to the grave with me! LOL! Men will be caught and still not admit it, so I'm going to and not caught???? Nope!

 

[syze6]

Because as a woman I can be low down dirty and cheat, but I won't be dumb about it. I will not get pregnant, I wouldn't go out of my way, truly he would never know the wiser. But when men cheat the side *** think she more than she is, she posting pics, you got side babies etc. when anyone cheats its disrespectful. But when a women cheats it's beyond lowkey and imo more respectful if that makes sense. You don't see no women trying to get all her side hoes, and baby daddies and kids together for family pics

Women cheat and DON'T get caught...we just don't. Our behavior does not give us away because we don't start acting brand new, all the extra grooming and working out shish! We stay on the same P's and Q's. Men...they wear cheating and new pum all over them. Woman to man: "Ain't that much sunny skies in the world, the hell you so happy about!" What's crazy is the same man who cheated on his girl many times, will die at her one discretion!LOL!

 

[Nina_S]

I'm of two minds.

Confessing is usually just to make the wrong doer feel better.

Not Confessing takes away the choice of the other party. If they knew they can decide whether to stay or to go.

If the person is asking if you cheated because they have a "feeling" they should go with their gut and act accordingly.

^^ Utter avoidance of the question...

 

[GeorginaSparks]

One time i told an ex out of spite and he burst out crying(i was dumping him). What a joke. Now, I would never.