I don't see anything wrong with that.
Tell us why. Please elaborate.
Why do you have to go out and get to know someone? If I feel like just chilling at home then that's what I'm going to do. I don't know what is so wrong about a guy suggesting that. Maybe he's tired, whatever. What does that supposed to mean? I don't know if that some kind of secret code or whatnot. Are you suggesting he's cheap? I don't play games or hard to get.
Why do you have to go out and get to know someone? If I feel like just chilling at home then that's what I'm going to do. I don't know what is so wrong about a guy suggesting that. Maybe he's tired, whatever. What does that supposed to mean? I don't know if that some kind of secret code or whatnot. Are you suggesting he's cheap? I don't play games or hard to get.
Well chillin' in the house with a BF would be cool but are you suggesting that on a first date chillin' at your house or his is acceptable?
When I was a bit younger I didn't see anything wrong with this. Now I would have to decline. I have done this in the past and unfortunately once you chill with them several times it's hard to get them to take you out of the house. My whole outlook on dating/courting has changed and my standards are much higher beause I feel I am worth it.
I'm sorry that happened to you crlsweetie!Personally and because of past experiences, I wouldn't do it. Someone that I knew and thought I could trust, attempted to rape me in his home. For that reason, unless it was someone I was really serious about and had been out with for a decent amount of time, I wouldn't do it. JMO
Absolutely not. No man will be in my home for the minimum of 3 months. Either take me out or leave me alone. Taking me out is not optional. If you don't want to go out, don't ask me. If you can't afford to take me out obviously you're not too bright anyway b/c the park is free and so are museums on certain days. It's not about money, it's about:
a) my personal safety and comfort
b) it will NOT become a habit (hanging out in the house)
Even so, chilling at home is not a good thing for celibate people. I don't put myself in any situations where things could go further than necessary.
ETA: I just tell him that I'd rather go out. If he doesn't then I ask to reschedule. If he wants to see me he will find a way to take me out.
Do you just say you don't want to chill on the couch and watch a movie or do you have a better comeback/excuse?
Absolutely not. No man will be in my home for the minimum of 3 months. Either take me out or leave me alone. Taking me out is not optional. If you don't want to go out, don't ask me. If you can't afford to take me out obviously you're not too bright anyway b/c the park is free and so are museums on certain days. It's not about money, it's about:
a) my personal safety and comfort
b) it will NOT become a habit (hanging out in the house)
Even so, chilling at home is not a good thing for celibate people. I don't put myself in any situations where things could go further than necessary.
ETA: I just tell him that I'd rather go out. If he doesn't then I ask to reschedule. If he wants to see me he will find a way to take me out.
Do you just say you don't want to chill on the couch and watch a movie or do you have a better comeback/excuse?
i dont even entertain men who fix their mouth and suggest chilling on his couch as a date, so I dont find an excuse i just say no thanx and lose my number.
Why do you have to go out and get to know someone? If I feel like just chilling at home then that's what I'm going to do. I don't know what is so wrong about a guy suggesting that. Maybe he's tired, whatever. What does that supposed to mean? I don't know if that some kind of secret code or whatnot. Are you suggesting he's cheap? I don't play games or hard to get.
When I was a bit younger I didn't see anything wrong with this. Now I would have to decline. I have done this in the past and unfortunately once you chill with them several times it's hard to get them to take you out of the house. My whole outlook on dating/courting has changed and my standards are much higher beause I feel I am worth it.
I would tell him that I prefer to go out and do something and that I'm not really comfortable with hanging out.
It's not safe to be alone like that with a guy that you do not know.
Lys
I would tell him that I prefer to go out and do something and that I'm not really comfortable with hanging out.
It's not safe to be alone like that with a guy that you do not know.
Lys