??? Why share later? People will begin to suspect your reasoning to ask
. But why not see a lawyer (for the person who's in need of this info)? That's the first place anyone should go.
Come on, you can tell us what's wrong.
Oh no... its not like that at all. i was at work and did not have time to type it all out bu6t I was thinking about it and wanted to get the thread started. So here we go...
The first thing I did was pray for good judgement and safety.
We were together for almost 7 years. He was basically a undiagnosed paranoid schizophrenic, very violent, very paranoid, very bipolar. If you can imagine walking on eggshells for almost 7 years, everyday not knowing what to expect, constantly on the defense, never having a moment to fully relax because when I was at home I was constantly monitored his mood, and when I was out in public it took all I had to maintain the front. Did I mention I was the only one working consistently? Exhausting.
So when my landlord said they would not renew our lease due to him disturbing the neighbors, I knew I was done. But I had about two months until the end of the lease. About that time I told him it was over and that I would not get sign another lease with him. He played his mind games, told me things would change, called me and my mother everything but a child of God, trashed the place, told me I would never be anyhting with out him, took everything*i mean everything* out of the apartment. He put him hands on me and that ended with my knees in his chest and hands around his throat while he having an asthma attack. *Mind you he was 6*5 and 275lbs.
But he finally realized I was serious when I told he would have to snap my neck or let me walk out of that door, but either way I was leaving. I told him I did not need or want s*** from him and he could have it all, it was just s*** and s*** could be replaced. And even if I would be nothing without him that was better than being with him. The funny thing was I was calm, no screaming, no crying, no begging, no fear.
He left me alone after that probably figuring I was crazier than he was and at the time I probably was. This was almost two years ago and havent looked back since.