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Spin off of PrettyHatian's thread.
If either you or your mate cheated...would you honestly want to stay in the relationship after such a breach of trust...or do you think "men cheat anyways...heck, I might cheat too...so it's whatever, we will get over it until it happens again".
Or do you honestly think that someone can cheat just once and then never again?
I don't know if I could get over it if someone cheated on me. And I am 99.9% sure that I'd never cheat on someone. All the cheating stars would have to be aligned and I'd have to be intoxicated and having an out of body experience for me to cheat.
This being said...I don't think that men are actually monogamous. I think that ALL men need something new *sometimes* That sometimes can be once a year, or once every 20 years. But I'd rather have such an open line of communication that my husband could come to me and tell me and we could satisfy his needs TOGETHER. I wouldn't do that with a boyfriend, but a husband...if it was part of our commitment, I would.
Do you think that you could truly get over cheating? I don't think I could, but I think that it would be easier to let go of a guy just sleeping with some random chick that didn't even know his real name vs. someone who was sleeping with a co-worker for 6 months behind my back.
If either you or your mate cheated...would you honestly want to stay in the relationship after such a breach of trust...or do you think "men cheat anyways...heck, I might cheat too...so it's whatever, we will get over it until it happens again".
Or do you honestly think that someone can cheat just once and then never again?
I don't know if I could get over it if someone cheated on me. And I am 99.9% sure that I'd never cheat on someone. All the cheating stars would have to be aligned and I'd have to be intoxicated and having an out of body experience for me to cheat.
This being said...I don't think that men are actually monogamous. I think that ALL men need something new *sometimes* That sometimes can be once a year, or once every 20 years. But I'd rather have such an open line of communication that my husband could come to me and tell me and we could satisfy his needs TOGETHER. I wouldn't do that with a boyfriend, but a husband...if it was part of our commitment, I would.
Do you think that you could truly get over cheating? I don't think I could, but I think that it would be easier to let go of a guy just sleeping with some random chick that didn't even know his real name vs. someone who was sleeping with a co-worker for 6 months behind my back.