As I am beginning to renew and rebuild my relationship with God I am also rebuilding my relationship with my family. I especially am trying to rebuild my marriage- with Gods guidance. After listening to the sermon about when bad things happen to good people. I finally realized that for most of our marital relationship I was a sower of discord in our marriage. I know that marriage is 50/50 but I played a major role in how a lot of things did not go right. To pull out all those weeds out of my garden is going to take a lot of time but with Gods help it will be done. However, there is a relationship in my DH life that I believe is sowing further seeds of discord in our marriage and is not conducive to our relationship. This person lives in the building next to ours and this person is 20 yrs younger that my DH so the maturity level is already different and there are other things that God put forth to me about this person that does not lay right with me. I spent time praying to God asking if it is his will this relationship will remain or not. However I know that is not up to me, God may be using this person for a reason in my DH life and it has not been revealed to me yet. Has anyone had this happen to their marriage?