Luthiengirlie, allow me to correct myself... I'm participating on behalf of CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE, BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN, not all marriages. Amen
Please pray for people in Christian marriages to remember humility. Pride is one of the most ugly sins because it springs us a lot of other evil sins against God. Teach married couples to ALWAYS be humble towards one another and look after each other as they would do their own flesh.
Allow Christian women to not believe in the false mantra that "all men cheat" and that all men are out to hurt and objectify them. We know that is not true because the Word of God states that God will train both men and women to fight for His Kingdom. Allow these women who desire Christian men to be exposed to Godly men who are never afraid to demonstrate their love and passion for God.
Intercessors, please keep in your prayers especially the Christian Men who are doing the right thing and facing spiritual resistance every day. The spiritual leaders, the ministry heads. The men who do pray, the men who do respect women, the men seeking "wives" and the men praying for their wives/fiancees/girlfriends as they enter into marriage. The men who want to become better men, through Christ Jesus.
Also, remember the men who lost their jobs or are unemployed through no fault of their own (downsizing, closures, etc) and are feeling the pressure of failure and inadequacy. They are the head and not the tail. They are above, and not beneath. Pray for their wives, that they respect them in spite of the condition they are currently in. They don't need to be banged on the head, they need to be lifted up in prayer to the Most High.
I think there should be prayer for the women as well who are unemployed through no fault of their own. In families
As for the part in bold, I always find this interesting because there are so many women out there that I find it hard to believe they have to "seek" for long.
James 4:3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume [it] upon your lusts.
God will provide... I truly believe that.
I understand that. But I think too often we pray for our men without remembering to pray for the women as well in those kinds of situations. I think God would want that.Nathansgirl, I'm not trying to be rude but my post was specific for a reason and I am aware there are women who are also breadwinners. If there is a prayer request on your heart, feel free to share, but please extend the courtesy to respect how others choose to request prayer.
God bless
But even the Bible says that marriage is sometimes not what it is cracked up to be and perhaps its in MANY peoples' best interest to remain single for God. I mean, why get so distracted about sex, relationships, men, when there are other much more important concerns in our world today?
I mean is marriage the end all to be all? I mean, sometimes I think we place waaaaay too much emphasis and attention on relationships/marriage as if it is the single most important issue in Christianity. Shouldn't we also think about eternity? Even the Bible speaks about how earthly marriages will be dissolved in Heaven
I agree up to that point about many more things being more important than marriage. The family unit is like a microcosm of the heavenly relationship. It's the first order that we see on the earth set in place for human behavior. Marriage is just that important, IMHO.
And many other things support this order such as sexual desire. If a man didn't have libido, he wouldn't seek marriage. If we didn't marry, we wouldn't be fruitful and multiply. If we just fornicated, there'd be little or no social order. But man desires marriage to stabilize the social order. Without marriages, lack of the social order wouldn't support bringing healthy families about and we'd all die off (and we can all see the results of dysfunction today).
'Be fruitful and multiply"...a command for all men. Whether one marries or not, that's dependent upon the individual. But the highly suggested and commanded order is marriage or being fruitful within the confines of commitment and protection. We all know that people fornicate, but marriage is still desirable. Many of the laws that God gave as worship are performed within that family unit so I'd say that marriage is of the utmost importance in the world. Through marriage, love and children, our whole view of our relationship with God is formed, edified or the lack thereof, destroys.
Regarding prayer, why not just post what your prayer is here so others could read it? That's probably where some people misunderstood the purpose of this thread.
I guess there is no marriage like the one in Heaven. Perhaps that is why so many marriages on Earth fail; to give us something to look forward to.