well two ladies at my job when i firsted started there had very short hair cut like a fade and they wont let it grow out theyjust keep cutting it. Now another lady at my job jumped on the bag wagon and cut her hair. I think it looks nice on her but one of the other ladies were talking about relaxers and she was like ppl need to leave them alone. im relaxed but i agree to an extent if u cant take care of it but she made it seem like womens only option is to cut their hair like a mans hair cut. Every time she sees a women like that she sparks up a convo about her hair hell. But i will tell you that she did say that when she had a relaxer she never moisturized and deep conditioned but she saying people should leave relaxers alone. So not that im mad or anything everyone has there opinion but now im the only black girl there and my hair is like apl so i really want to make a point about how you can manage it and it can look good long if you try. IF i was natural i would try and grow it as big and long as a could to try you dont always have to cut it almost bald to manage it. okay im done just had to let yall know