Jade Feria
Well-Known Member
....Is it me, or does it seem like all the "girl, he done did me wrong"/"Is he cheating on me"/"I can't believe what he said to me" threads go platinum, while all the "what do you love about him"/"what are some nice things he has done for you" threads barely get responses? I may be a little biased in my question because I made one of these threads before and barely anyone responded.
I'm not referring to the threads where people ask general questions about relationships. This is about the thread topics that refer to the positive aspects of relationships vs the ones that refer to the negative aspects of relationships.
Maybe we would have better relationships if we focused more on the positive aspects of our relationships and had a more positive outlook overall (better relationship with ourselves)..then we would have better results (better relationship with others). That which we focus on, expands. So if we're focusing on all these bad relationships, we will continue to find ourselves in the same displeasing situations. If we are more positive, we are more confident, and we know what we want and deserve, we will start attracting higher quality people, relationships, and situations into our lives.
This just shows how we as a society have been conditioned to automatically look for the bad. People look for the bad, find the bad, acknowledge the bad, think about the bad, rant and vent for hours and hours about the bad, respond to the bad, analyze the bad, rationalize the bad, and wonder why they keep finding themselves in "bad" situations.
Don't worry, be happy!
:Rose: :sweet:
I'm not referring to the threads where people ask general questions about relationships. This is about the thread topics that refer to the positive aspects of relationships vs the ones that refer to the negative aspects of relationships.
Maybe we would have better relationships if we focused more on the positive aspects of our relationships and had a more positive outlook overall (better relationship with ourselves)..then we would have better results (better relationship with others). That which we focus on, expands. So if we're focusing on all these bad relationships, we will continue to find ourselves in the same displeasing situations. If we are more positive, we are more confident, and we know what we want and deserve, we will start attracting higher quality people, relationships, and situations into our lives.
This just shows how we as a society have been conditioned to automatically look for the bad. People look for the bad, find the bad, acknowledge the bad, think about the bad, rant and vent for hours and hours about the bad, respond to the bad, analyze the bad, rationalize the bad, and wonder why they keep finding themselves in "bad" situations.
Don't worry, be happy!
:Rose: :sweet:
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