So..he talked marriage & meant it...and married someone else

kayte said:
I was a lil sad....but in the back of my mind...kept the "what if" store open.....while he was single...

I TOTALLY WOULDA MARRIED HIM

whooooooooooooooooooa:blush:

there are no accidents in the spiritual realm:rolleyes:
his rejection? GOD'S PROTECTION:grin:
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Omg....YES! I have to really keep reminding myself of this. Sometimes I can get so caught up in the hurt and pain of the fact that things didn't work out between me and some dude, when in reality....I'm very FORTUNATE that I didn't end up with him! :nono: I think things happen for a reason, and usually if thugs (oooops! I meant "THINGS" lol) didn't work out (with a few exceptions of course) then there's usually a pretty good reason.

Sometimes you just can't see that this person wasn't the right one for you, until time goes by after the breakup. They always say that hindsight is 20/20.
 
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Ah...the beautiful Kayte...where ya been writer-sister? You didn't dodge a bullet you dodged a shotgun blast. He sounds multiple...personalities that is. He can kick it with you, marry a figment of his imagination and still find the character to court a teenager.

These are the worst kind of men because they are experts at being chameleons. He's no more Christian than a lizard. He'll be whatever he needs to be to the woman he's talking to.

Now you know...he totally sounds like the Bedazzler. The Perfect man for whomever he is wooing at the moment. One day I was his ideal woman a black queen, the next some 60 year old yt woman was his soul mate, but not before the 200 lbLatino he's kicking it with online who could just be the one to make him say "I do" again. He had my head spinning.

Honey count your blessings...one by one (and there are many) and keep it moving.
 
THEDONROSSCOLLECTION said:
You dodged a phat a:censored: bullet. Reminds me of when I wanted to be with my first love forever...long story short he got 3 women pregnant all at the same time and I think one of them has twins for him. I thank God everyday he didn't choose me and that I decided to go into another direction. (whew!)
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lol...you are so funny:lol:

huh!
so he went with his families-es
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I am VERY GLAD you went >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
I thank God everyday
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Amen......seriously
 
Crystalicequeen123 said:
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Omg....YES! I have to really keep reminding myself of this. Sometimes I can get so caught up in the hurt and pain of the fact that things didn't work out between me and some dude, when in reality....I'm very FORTUNATE that I didn't end up with him! :nono: I think things happen for a reason, and usually if thugs didn't work out (with a few exceptions of course) then there's usually a pretty good reason.

Sometimes you just can't see that this person wasn't the right one for you, until time goes by after the breakup. They always say that hindsight is 20/20.
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It IS harder in the moment....it was for me too
you do have to thank God on it..when you see what MIGHT have been
and it's not pretty~:nono:
 
ElizaBlue said:
Ah...the beautiful Kayte...where ya been writer-sister? You didn't dodge a bullet you dodged a shotgun blast. He sounds multiple...personalities that is. He can kick it with you, marry a figment of his imagination and still find the character to court a teenager.

These are the worst kind of men because they are experts at being chameleons. He's no more Christian than a lizard. He'll be whatever he needs to be to the woman he's talking to.

Now you know...he totally sounds like the Bedazzler. The Perfect man for whomever he is wooing at the moment. One day I was his ideal woman a black queen, the next some 60 year old yt woman was his soul mate, but not before the 200 lbLatino he's kicking it with online who could just be the one to make him say "I do" again. He had my head spinning.

Honey count your blessings...one by one (and there are many) and keep it moving.
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& the charismatic gifted and gorgeous...novelist Elizablue~
WOMAN ~~THIS IS THE YEAR! 2011 OUR NOVELS WILL PUBLISH AND PROSPER. *****

You didn't dodge a bullet you dodged a shotgun blast.
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And lived to tell the tale...

there oughta be a book titled
THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY..AND THANK THE GOOD LORD HE DID

He's no more Christian than a lizard.
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:lol:LOLLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOOLOL

still find the character to court a teenager
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girl.I'm tellin you.:nono:
 
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One day I was his ideal woman a black queen, the next some 60 year old yt woman was his soul mate, but not before the 200 lbLatino he's kicking it with online who could just be the one to make him say "I do" again. He had my head spinning.
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what what what???
this is in the long past right?
lemme go find your thread.....
 
luckiestdestiny said:
I really feel like things happen for our benefit even when we aren't aware of why. Good gracious you did dodge on didn't you?!
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God works behind the scenes.:yep:Corinthians 13 on love says
what is perfect will some day appear and what is not will disappear
CEV
 
Crystalicequeen123 said:
Ermmmmm.....I may have read her post the wrong way, but when I read it I got the impression that Kayte did not have any relations with this man. Instead he promised that when they got MARRIED all she would have to do is write, and he'd drop work or whatever and come be w/her. :look:

See??
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@Crystalicequeen123, thanks for clarifying... I just read her initial post differently based on the punctuation and sentence structure of that line you quoted from her initial post...

@SweetNic_JA, I was not judging kayte AT ALL... I said what I said based on my interpretation of her initial post.

Edited to Add: I have now put kayte on ignore so I do not have to see or read anymore of her posts to avoid any further confusion and misunderstandings.
 
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kayte said:
I was a lil sad....but in the back of my mind...kept the "what if" store open.....while he was single...

I TOTALLY WOULDA MARRIED HIM

whooooooooooooooooooa:blush:

there are no accidents in the spiritual realm:rolleyes:
his rejection? GOD'S PROTECTION:grin:
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You said it sister...kick rocks and go back to flirting with ur wife corn fritter....Trying to PM you and talk...nah, get gone with all of that:lol:
 
I'm just confused about the young girl on Facebook. Do you really thinking he's being inappropriate with her? Couldn't she be a niece or even his new wife's daughter??
 
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