So, did I mention Im a natural.....AGAIN!

honeycomb719

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Lmbo, I dont know why Im a yo-yo BC'er, but I am. This is my 3rd time doing this, and its seems after about 3 or 4 yrs I get bored with my hair, and relax it, them somehow drift back to my natural roots.:grin: I havent had much success being natural, but Im hoping the 3rd time is the charm.
Has anyone else been a yo-yo BC'er? What was your "ah-ha" moment that made you finally except being natuarl and being successful at it? I REFUSE to relax my hair again. I've known this for many years now that relaxers JUST DONT AGREE WITH MY HAIR!!!! lol..
Thanks for reading my mini vent!!

All recommendations will be entertained!!:yep:
 
I am a Yo-Yo Bic Chopper since 2003, I have been at it for years, But I did love being Lightly Relaxed, I still had my curls but was softer all day. I think I am going back to lightly relaxing every 4 months or so.

DDTexlaxed is also one, she will be here LOL!!

Oh! I have done it 10x's! But I am tired now LOL!!
 
I am a Yo-Yo Bic Chopper since 2003, I have been at it for years, But I did love being Lightly Relaxed, I still had my curls but was softer all day. I think I am going back to lightly relaxing every 4 months or so.

DDTexlaxed is also one, she will be here LOL!!

Oh! I have done it 10x's! But I am tired now LOL!!

Yeah that was my attempt this last time, just relaxing a lil bit to keep some texure but not completely straight....yeah well it didnt work on these kinks so here I am again.
My tight thin 4a hair strands cant take no chemicals and my scalp, oh my thats another story. No matter how often I wash my hair the scalp STAYS itchy.
 
I've gone back and forth as well. So long as your pleased with the results (no matter how many times your duplicate them) that is all that matters, dear heart!
 
Congrats on your BC. I just was never all that tied to a relaxer in the first place. Once I found out that flat irons can do the same job as a relaxer could (for my hair, at least), I was sold!
 
Welcome aboard again. :giggle: To some, you appear fun and daring and like you really know how to enjoy your hair.
 
I was a 3x BCer. First time was in 2001. I kept it about a 1 1/2 years, then switched back to relaxing out of boredom and to see the length. I wasn't really good at the whole straightening thing, plus I live in Florida (damn humidity). The second time was in 2004. I'm not sure why I went back. Guess I just had fond memories of my natural days, and again about 1 1/2 years later went back to the relaxer. The last time, I had way to many flakes and like to wash my hair way to often and thought about how I could wash as often as I needed to when I was natural and chopped off (or rather shaved off) my hair again in 2007. Due to the access to Youtube and so many hair boards now, I think I might just keep my hair natural. I even did a successful blow-drying and flat-ironing a couple weeks ago, so if I really get that itch to have straight hair, I'll just go the temporary route instead of opting for the relaxers. It's been 3 years and I'm still going strong.
 
Sorry it took me a min to get back with pics ladies but here they are:
Front Wet (w/ conditioner)
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Back Wet
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Front Dry
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I know I know...Im a work in progress! But I REFUSE to relax EVER again!!!1 I mean it this time yall, lol.
 
Lookin good. Welcome back to the natural side. Like Nonie said, it sounds like you are very fun and daring when it comes to your hair. :D
 
Heyyy! Looks good girl, it is all curly and soft looking.

Its pretty soft when wet. Not so sure how "soft" when dry tho:grin:. Any guess as to my hair type? Ive alway thought I was a 4a. My hair looks really dense,thick full, but whe pulled into ponytail its pretty thin. My strands are really thin too.
 
I am a Yo-Yo Bic Chopper since 2003, I have been at it for years, But I did love being Lightly Relaxed, I still had my curls but was softer all day. I think I am going back to lightly relaxing every 4 months or so.

DDTexlaxed is also one, she will be here LOL!!

Oh! I have done it 10x's! But I am tired now LOL!!

Your hair is gorgeous,HoneyComb!
:blush: SB, let the cat out the bag! Very naughty!:naughty::lachen: I think being texlaxed works better for me and my hair. I can do wash n gos and twist outs without SS knots. I haven't texlaxed yet, but I probably will in the future.:rolleyes: No more BCs in my future unless by force!
 
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Girl that is my motto as well, "Third Time's the Charm!" I am almost 1 year post relaxer, currently in kinky twists, and plan to bc soon. My first bc was in 2005. Started relaxing again about 5 months later. The second bc was in 2006. That time I stayed natural 2 years & 4 months. My last relaxer was June 2009. I can't wait to be natural again. Congrats to you! Your hair does look nice & soft.
 
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