Ajna
Well-Known Member
Ok ladies, I am really curious about this online dating when you are supposed to be in a committed relationship
I was dating someone who maintained an online dating profile. We originally met online but I let mine go when we agreed to see each other exclusively, I assumed he did the same. When I found out he kept his and by the way was active (as in online today) I let him go, for me it became a deal breaker.
I told a male friend of mine about why we broke up over lunch and he told me I was wrong. I was like um excuse me. He gave me some bs answer about I should look at how he treats me maybe it is an ego thing. Then a girlfriend told me she keeps her online profile because while she is in a committed relationship she still likes having options.
I am not changing my mind, I feel no reason to try and make a relationship work if you cannot focus solely on me but this is my choice and I am wondering if I am the odd man out here. Is this like some rule about online dating that I missed?
So what would you do?
I was dating someone who maintained an online dating profile. We originally met online but I let mine go when we agreed to see each other exclusively, I assumed he did the same. When I found out he kept his and by the way was active (as in online today) I let him go, for me it became a deal breaker.
I told a male friend of mine about why we broke up over lunch and he told me I was wrong. I was like um excuse me. He gave me some bs answer about I should look at how he treats me maybe it is an ego thing. Then a girlfriend told me she keeps her online profile because while she is in a committed relationship she still likes having options.
I am not changing my mind, I feel no reason to try and make a relationship work if you cannot focus solely on me but this is my choice and I am wondering if I am the odd man out here. Is this like some rule about online dating that I missed?
So what would you do?