Showering immediately after coloring

mieshashair

mieshashair

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Would you be offended if ur husband jumped up immediately after coloring n took 15 minute showers even if he had just taken one right before coloring. Don't get me wrong I understand washing off but complete showers?????
 
If your guy sweats his butt off after putting in alot of work, then no I wouldnt be offended. I don't want to cuddle with a stinky man...


If he showered because if felt dirty for having colored, then yes.
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Yes...depending on the sweat level though as posted above. Mine started doing it about five years into marriage and I was taken back a little b/c we shower before we go to bed also :perplexed
 
Is he making a mad dash like Carl Lewis (ewww lady juices) or is he just casually getting up (dang you worked a ninja out) to clean up?

In either case, go get in the shower with him.
 
I shower before and after coloring because I hate having any paint on me. I usually shower with my SO and we lotion or oil one another so its a nice sensual addition to our coloring routine.

I wouldnt be offened, as another poster said jump in the shower with him and wash his back
 
I dated a guy who got up immediately after coloring. I'm talking as soon as we were done, he was off and running to shower. He didn't waste a minute. It kinda hurt my feelings and I told him and he worked with me. It didn't completely surprise me because he was almost obssesive compulsive about everything being clean and in place even when it came to his body. But still,I didn't appreciate his need to jump off me and right into the shower.
 
Yep. I would be offended. I knew of a guy that would not only jump up and shower, but he'd pour alcohol on his stuff before he got in the shower. I was told that he thought it would stop another woman from smelling anything. Idk.
 
Christina Dior said:
i dont think i had anybody get up and do anything but sleep after :grin: lol jk :look:
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I see how you roll! lol

DayStar said:
i shower after i color...:ohwell:
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I always do as well. It just feel right. But for a man to do that leaves me scratching my head. Is he running to the bathroom after he take a trip downtown as well. A man like that seems like he don't like to get too dirty and I can't **** with that. lol
 
Ediese said:
Yep. I would be offended. I knew of a guy that would not only jump up and shower, but he'd pour alcohol on his stuff before he got in the shower. I was told that he thought it would stop another woman from smelling anything. Idk.
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who would really carry a bottle of alcohol with him :lol:
 
Ediese said:
Yep. I would be offended. I knew of a guy that would not only jump up and shower, but he'd pour alcohol on his stuff before he got in the shower. I was told that he thought it would stop another woman from smelling anything. Idk.
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Dude had issues. He would be the type to not want to kiss you after you gave him a mic check; even without him, um releasing.
 
Ediese said:
Yep. I would be offended. I knew of a guy that would not only jump up and shower, but he'd pour alcohol on his stuff before he got in the shower. I was told that he thought it would stop another woman from smelling anything. Idk.
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I know a dude like that. His friends clowned him after he said he used gloves to take off the condom. :perplexed
 
Sosoothing said:
I dated a guy who got up immediately after coloring. I'm talking as soon as we were done, he was off and running to shower. He didn't waste a minute. It kinda hurt my feelings and I told him and he worked with me. It didn't completely surprise me because he was almost obssesive compulsive about everything being clean and in place even when it came to his body. But still,I didn't appreciate his need to jump off me and right into the shower.
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The OCD type huh? Yeah I had an ex like that. I have OCD too but he'd shower, clean the shower out, and want to change the sheets in the morning too. He was just anal like that. His place was immaculate.

Funny thing is it grew on me & I started beating him to the shower.

I'd tell him to hurry up & take a shower so we can go to bed. I do feel you should be washing up your nether regions before & after. Especially women so you won't risk an UTI.
 
Lol I would not, besides I personally hate going in the shower for any time less than 15 minutes. The water just feels to good otherwise..
 
MizzBrown Excuse my ignorance, but, how would someone get an UTI?

As for the question, if he gets up immediately because it was just a quickie and he needs to get ready for whatever it is he has to do, then no.

If he pauses to recuperate on energy, then gets up for a shower (he can ask or not ask me to join :look:), then no.

If he gets up immediately afterwards because he feels "dirty", then yes.
 
*SkolarStar* said:
@MizzBrown Excuse my ignorance, but, how would someone get an UTI?

If he gets up immediately afterwards because he feels "dirty", then yes.
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You can get a UTI in several different ways but I've been informed to go urinate immediately after sex and make sure it's cleaned up well because our urethra is so close to our vagina & our anal region.

When you have sex, especially sex with a whole lot of friction, flexible positioning :lol: and what-not, you risk those areas being susceptible to infection.

Women get more UTI's than men and sex is usually a trigger. It aint guaranteed prevention but it helps.
 
I too was taught to urinate immediately after coloring.
This along with washing the area is a barrier against diseases.

I wouldn't be offended if DH showered afterwards.
Now if he was acting as if my good goods had the cooties then we would have to have a chat.
 
Ediese said:
Yep. I would be offended. I knew of a guy that would not only jump up and shower, but he'd pour alcohol on his stuff before he got in the shower. I was told that he thought it would stop another woman from smelling anything. Idk.
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Maybe this is too obvious of a question but ... what other woman is smelling his peen? Was he cheating? WTH.
 
ThickHair said:
Dude had issues. He would be the type to not want to kiss you after you gave him a mic check; even without him, um releasing.
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Erm..I've heard that he also holds that stuff in his mouth as if he's disgusted, and is quick to jump up and spit it out. lmbo That's hilarious to me. I would be even more offended by that.
 
Ediese said:
Erm..I've heard that he also holds that stuff in his mouth as if he's disgusted, and is quick to jump up and spit it out. lmbo That's hilarious to me. I would be even more offended by that.
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The dude should only "relate" to himself. That is too many hang ups. If you want me to kiss you er'where then you dang well better kiss me in my mouth. I am so happy I have not run into any uptight dude.
 
I don't think I would be to bothered if he showered after sex. I have a thing about the way a person smells so if he sweats a lot, and I knew one guy in particular who did, then it might be a good thing. This dude would start sweating just standing having a conversation. LOL Sigh...sometimes I think I miss that dude.
 
My G-Mama always told me when I start coloring to get my arse up and wash up, her exact words were "Don't just lay there marinating in juices, you need to get up and wash that mess out"
 
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