Ladies ive decided to give my hair a major trim. I have finally reached my goal of shoulder length but only in the back which really doesnt make me shoulder length. My sides stop at the end of my neck, in january they were at the end of my ear (major growth) my back is two inches past my neck, do u ladies think i should trim my back to the same length as my sides? also my ends on the sides are thin and so are my bangs