lady_godiva
Well-Known Member
I just went through a major setback in my life. Something that I had been working on for years was taken away from me. It hurts, but I am starting to get over it now.
I was involved with a man during my going after this goal. I wrote about him in another thread. After getting advice from you ladies, I decided to leave him alone. He was with me until the set back came. Now I know that he was only with me for one reason only. If I had gotten what I was pursuing, I would have more than likely married this man.
There is another man on my job who has always flirted with me. However, he has never asked me out. He never cared about my personal aspirations. At one point he thought that I was just talking about what I wanted to do, but did not think that I would actually do it. That made me think that he was really into me.
When I started back to work this month and I see him again, he is very nice. He tells me he is sorry about my loss. I think he is even trying to make me feel better by saying that my interest is crappy anyway. But, it is my passion and I know that I will pursue this goal again in the future.
I go back to work with a new hairstyle. By the way he always compliments my hair. Anyway, he compliments me on my new hairstyle. He also gently touched my arm when I passed by him one day at work. Now I have a major crush on him.![Love :love: :love:](/smilies/love.gif)
My question is, what do I do? Do I wait for him to ask me out? Do I ask him out? We do work together so I do know that there are some risks with that. I complimented him too about his working out. I am so into him, because I know that he likes me for me and not for what I was trying to become. Also, if it's God's will and I do make it one day, I will already be with the person who loves me for me win or lose.
What to do y'all? I really really LIKE him.
I was involved with a man during my going after this goal. I wrote about him in another thread. After getting advice from you ladies, I decided to leave him alone. He was with me until the set back came. Now I know that he was only with me for one reason only. If I had gotten what I was pursuing, I would have more than likely married this man.
There is another man on my job who has always flirted with me. However, he has never asked me out. He never cared about my personal aspirations. At one point he thought that I was just talking about what I wanted to do, but did not think that I would actually do it. That made me think that he was really into me.
When I started back to work this month and I see him again, he is very nice. He tells me he is sorry about my loss. I think he is even trying to make me feel better by saying that my interest is crappy anyway. But, it is my passion and I know that I will pursue this goal again in the future.
I go back to work with a new hairstyle. By the way he always compliments my hair. Anyway, he compliments me on my new hairstyle. He also gently touched my arm when I passed by him one day at work. Now I have a major crush on him.
![Love :love: :love:](/smilies/love.gif)
My question is, what do I do? Do I wait for him to ask me out? Do I ask him out? We do work together so I do know that there are some risks with that. I complimented him too about his working out. I am so into him, because I know that he likes me for me and not for what I was trying to become. Also, if it's God's will and I do make it one day, I will already be with the person who loves me for me win or lose.
What to do y'all? I really really LIKE him.