Lilac87
Well-Known Member
So I found this great guy and (loooong story short) I thought he was interested in dating me, but as it turns out he is already kinda dating someone else- long distance and isn't looking for a relationship from me. I was pretty upset because I did like him a lot; he seemed like a genuinely good guy but oh well. Anyway, during the same convo when I found out he was dating someone else he goes, "don't throw me away, though. Don't throw away a good friendship. I wish we can stay friends but that's up to you."
So I responded, "No, not at this time, take care." I'm not really a believer of being friends with someone of the opposite sex because one party always catches feelings and it's never fair to that person. In this situation, it would be me with the feelings. I'm like, why try to be friends and hang out and stuff? So I can get an invite to your wedding?
After our convo, I told my girlfriends what happened, thinking that I did the right thing with cutting him off and that they would agree with my decision. They told me, basically, that I was crazy and should stay friends with him.
So now I'm kind of wondering if I made the right decision by leaving him alone? I feel like I did but it seems like everyone else thinks I made a mistake.
What do y'all think?
So I responded, "No, not at this time, take care." I'm not really a believer of being friends with someone of the opposite sex because one party always catches feelings and it's never fair to that person. In this situation, it would be me with the feelings. I'm like, why try to be friends and hang out and stuff? So I can get an invite to your wedding?
After our convo, I told my girlfriends what happened, thinking that I did the right thing with cutting him off and that they would agree with my decision. They told me, basically, that I was crazy and should stay friends with him.
So now I'm kind of wondering if I made the right decision by leaving him alone? I feel like I did but it seems like everyone else thinks I made a mistake.
What do y'all think?