Rezgirl
Member
I have a great boyfriend who I've been together with for a few years. We both work, we're both in school and have an overall great relationship. The problem is that he is, I guess, what you would call a flirt. I really do not believe that he's been physical with anyone but I get so upset when I find out that he is giving girls/exes his phone number, talking via facebook, etc. A guy asked me for my number and I said no way, he asked for me to call him, I said no way - because I just feel like I have a man so why do I want to open another can of worms. I don't want him to ignore other women but damn-u giving out your number?This has been an ongoing problem, he is very loving and I pretty much trust him but I don't like this at all!Do you break a relationship up b/c of this? He is not willing to change his behavior and typically just hides it. Do I leave well enough alone, do I put my foot down? I'm 5 months pregnant and he says Im overreacting and sensitive but this was happening before and I didn't like it then!He HATES it when the shoe is on the other foot and says if I start giving my number out, I don't want to be in a relationship and 2 wrongs don't make a right!!Mind you, this is my only complaint-he loves me, buys me diamonds, wants to marry me, loves me being around his family,rubs my feet, cooks for me - the whole rest of the relationship is GREAT! what the hell do i do???Am I a sucker if I let it go, turn the other cheek or don't retaliate?Am I throwing away a good thing for something minor?I'm not a perfect woman and he has had some stuff to put up with but nothing like this. hellllppppp....