CarLiTa
Well-Known Member
Anyone not used to that? And feel awkward when that is proposed?
I feel like in conversations like that I never quite know what to say. It sounds like a big deal when suggested. And I feel like my reservations are:
-sometimes I just like to sit and not speak to anyone
-I need me-time
Not in a "you will get on my nerves" kind of way, but I know I can't be on all the time, and I would like the freedom to not speak when I don't want to and have no experience with setting me-time boundaries on a daily basis with a SO.
Oddly enough, all my serious relationships have been long-distance (with frequent visits) or with men who travel regularly.
Anyone else feel the same?
How do you manage your personal time if you live in the same city as your SO?
I feel like in conversations like that I never quite know what to say. It sounds like a big deal when suggested. And I feel like my reservations are:
-sometimes I just like to sit and not speak to anyone
-I need me-time
Not in a "you will get on my nerves" kind of way, but I know I can't be on all the time, and I would like the freedom to not speak when I don't want to and have no experience with setting me-time boundaries on a daily basis with a SO.
Oddly enough, all my serious relationships have been long-distance (with frequent visits) or with men who travel regularly.
Anyone else feel the same?
How do you manage your personal time if you live in the same city as your SO?