There are a number of good threads here with some good advice. However, when the threads start getting sexually explicit, that's not allowed - which you all already know. When it comes to those type of details, they're not permitted on the forum (use email or private messaging), but please don't use any of the forums for that as it's against the forum rules (which will result in banning).
The forum rules are here if you need to refresh yourself on them: http://www.longhaircareforum.com/rules.php?do=view&rid=1
The forum rules are here if you need to refresh yourself on them: http://www.longhaircareforum.com/rules.php?do=view&rid=1