Since I like to wear my hair straight a lot, The only time I am moisturizing is usually when I am deep conditioning my hair and using a leave-in before styling. Every couple of days I'd use a sealant like coconut oil or a serum (My favorite is from Pureology) but that is very rare and minimal. Less is more when I am wearing straight hair.
How often do you moisturize with a leave-in? I wash and condition my hair normally 2x a week... this may change this winter.
What do you use? I really like Silk Dreams Wheat Germ Butter Conditioner. I ran out so currently I am using Silicon Mix Bambu Leave-in, which is just as good.
What's different about how you moisturize now and how you did it at the beginning of your hair journey? When I started my hair journey, I wore a lot of protective styles so I was using a ton of products. Less is more when I am going for the straight look, though.