NessaNessa
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Why? Why? Why?
I really am not understanding men these days. I have been seeing this guy. We have been getting very close. Well about 2 weeks ago, I realized I was falling for him kinda hard. I didnt think he was ready for a raltionship so I began backing off. He didnt like that.
Well yesterday, I bit the bullet and asked him what did he think about us. His reply was he really like me yada, yada, yada, but he doesnt want to ruin the relationship. Cool. I got the answer and I could deal with that.
Well, he then goes on to ask me am I in love with him. I am like huh ??!! I told him no I am not, but I really like you. So I ask him is that how he felt about me. He said yes. Um, I am thinking where did that come from? When I told him I wasnt in love with him, he told me I was cold. Once again, HUH??
Well, we hung up and I called him back because we kinda got off the phone a bit abruptly. He didnt answer but called me back immediatley. He then went on to say, he thought I was calling to tell him something he wanted to hear. Ladies, I am so confused (see my mood ) I am thinking to just end all contact for a week or two until he is totally out of my system because he seem just as confused as I am.
Ladies this is the condensed version b/c I am at work But I just wanted some insight.
I think he really like me but is unsure of us because we started out as really good for friends. Never thought we would start hanging out. But then again, maybe this is what I am telling myself because I want him really like me.
I really am not understanding men these days. I have been seeing this guy. We have been getting very close. Well about 2 weeks ago, I realized I was falling for him kinda hard. I didnt think he was ready for a raltionship so I began backing off. He didnt like that.
Well yesterday, I bit the bullet and asked him what did he think about us. His reply was he really like me yada, yada, yada, but he doesnt want to ruin the relationship. Cool. I got the answer and I could deal with that.
Well, he then goes on to ask me am I in love with him. I am like huh ??!! I told him no I am not, but I really like you. So I ask him is that how he felt about me. He said yes. Um, I am thinking where did that come from? When I told him I wasnt in love with him, he told me I was cold. Once again, HUH??
Well, we hung up and I called him back because we kinda got off the phone a bit abruptly. He didnt answer but called me back immediatley. He then went on to say, he thought I was calling to tell him something he wanted to hear. Ladies, I am so confused (see my mood ) I am thinking to just end all contact for a week or two until he is totally out of my system because he seem just as confused as I am.
Ladies this is the condensed version b/c I am at work But I just wanted some insight.
I think he really like me but is unsure of us because we started out as really good for friends. Never thought we would start hanging out. But then again, maybe this is what I am telling myself because I want him really like me.