I think the men who just settle down with anyone as soon as they want to have a family are players, or men with limited options (getting old) usually. A lot. Half of those guys in the OP sound suss.
Not one word about love. erplexed
This helps me understand the high rates of cheating husbands.
Men think of women and marriage differently than women do.
I think some men just think, okay she is what I want to be my wife because I like that she irons my shirts.
We want the fairytale.
i really think it is all about timing. when men are ready to marry it's whoever they are dating are whomever is on there path at that time. except an ex are current girlfriend that did something that left a bad taste in his mouth.