I'm now thinking that the way I co wash is different from how most people do it. People actually put the condish on their scalps and scrub with the pads of their fingers like they would with shampoo? Because I totally didn't know that. And i don't do that.
So i guess I don't co wash, I just condition my hair. Because what I do when I claim to be co washing is just wet my hair and put conditioner on the length of it. If it needs detangling I do that too, with the conditioner in it, then I rinse it out. I don't try to clean my scalp with it.