Random Hair Thoughts/Thinking out loud

apart of accepting my non-relaxed hair: my hair is too soft to stay looking nice in a protective style for more than 3 days.

I'm okay with that, I'm much better at braiding and flat twists now.
 
Planning to flat iron this week... likely thursday and maintain it with pin curls for an event on sunday. So a couple more co washes this week then a clarifying wash. I hope one of my Aubrey Organics conditioners come before then so I can use one for a delightful DC:yep:
 
If I recover from this protein overload, I'll never ever experiment with apparently innocent hair treatments again.

3 overnight deep conditioning sessions and my hair is feeling only slightly better. I want to cry.
 
It's my off-day today and I just don't wanna leave home...too hot! But I'm almost out of S-curl...hopefully this lasts me 'till tomorrow...
 
loving my braidout today. i think i like flexirods on the ends even better than the tiny perm rods. i can do fatter braids-i think i only did like 7 and it still comes out cute.
 
Finally have time to wash,dc and flat twist my hair for the week..Oh my hair needed that prepoo and detangle..it was so dry in the middle..Im sorta digging my natural hair but it will be getting relaxed soon..
 
Got a chance to cowash today after a bananas weekend of my Celie's being hidden under a wig while bartending. Hair hated it at the moment, but will love it later when I can buy all kinds of hair candy from the tips I made :giggle:
 
Wearing my first ever wet bun right now.

Thought I'd have plenty of time to do a dc and airdry for an hour before I had to pick up the kiddo from a meeting, but time got away from me.

I barley had time to quickly put my leave-ins on, throw in a quick bun and hit the road.

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I feel so bad for my mom. She was wearing weaves to help her grow her hair out during the awkward stage. Takes the weave out, and her thinning hair got so much worse.

In her words, she said she looked like the lady who didn't have that much hair trying to hold onto the last strands :nono:

So she went from SL to a boy cut, and its soooo thin on the top. She is so upset and self concious about it, and I feel so bad for her. HOWEVER, she was getting color, relaxer, and a sew-in put in on the same day for every install :look:

Needless to say, she went out and puchased the Nioxin system with the foaming scalp treatment to start it off. I plan on making her a batch of Nonie 's scalp mix that she used to help back in '04.

Hopefully this will help. It hurts me to see her like this, because I don't want my hair to thin like hers. I'm determined not to go through that!

But last night on my date, he ran his fingers through (tried to anyways) and said my hair is so damn THICK! I snarled at him, but on the inside I was doing the cabbage patch :yay:

:lol:
 
Wearing my first ever we bun right now.

Thought I'd have plenty of time to do a dc and airdry for an hour before I had to pick up the kiddo from a meeting, but time got away from me.

I barley had time to quickly put my leave-ins on, throw in a quick bun and hit the road.

Sent from my Comet

sunnieb - did your wet bun turn out nice?

I feel so bad for my mom. She was wearing weaves to help her grow her hair out during the awkward stage. Takes the weave out, and her thinning hair got so much worse.

In her words, she said she looked like the lady who didn't have that much hair trying to hold onto the last strands :nono:

So she went from SL to a boy cut, and its soooo thin on the top. She is so upset and self concious about it, and I feel so bad for her. HOWEVER, she was getting color, relaxer, and a sew-in put in on the same day for every install :look:

Needless to say, she went out and puchased the Nioxin system with the foaming scalp treatment to start it off. I plan on making her a batch of @Nonie 's scalp mix that she used to help back in '04.

Hopefully this will help. It hurts me to see her like this, because I don't want my hair to thin like hers. I'm determined not to go through that!

But last night on my date, he ran his fingers through (tried to anyways) and said my hair is so damn THICK! I snarled at him, but on the inside I was doing the cabbage patch :yay:

:lol:
Curlybeauty - I'm sorry to hear this about your mom. My mom wears wigs 100% of the time. I cannot tell you the last time I've seen my mom's real hair. She tells me it has thinned really bad but she LOVES her wigs so I don't think she's too much worried about it. My mom use to abuse her hair with color, sew-ins, glue-ins, etc. Hopefully your mom can recover. Congrats on the touchy feely date. :yay: :grin:
 
Okay ladies, I don't mean to sound all extra like those random my hair got cut against my will threads but real talk, I'm going through withdrawals. I feel like I can't get it to do nothing I want it to do. :look: ETA: I know my hair looks and feels better but......

In other news, dh's birthday was last week and we had a great time. Our anniversary is this week and we hope to have another great time.

@Nix08 - remind me, when is your anniversary? Our is 10 Aug (13 years).
 
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Okay ladies, I don't mean to sound all extra like those random my hair got cut against my will threads but real talk, I'm going through withdrawals. I feel like I can't get it to do nothing I want it to do. :look: ETA: I know my hair looks and feels better but......

In other news, dh's birthday was last week and we had a great time. Our anniversary is this week and we hope to have another great time.

@Nix08 - remind me, when is your anniversary? Our is 10 Aug (13 years).

Hehe ...I was actually making a mental note to send you a shout out on the 10th:yep: Ours is on the 13th (6 years).

Oh and regarding your trim...I have regrets after every single trim I get:look:
 
Curlybeauty - I'm sorry to hear this about your mom. My mom wears wigs 100% of the time. I cannot tell you the last time I've seen my mom's real hair. She tells me it has thinned really bad but she LOVES her wigs so I don't think she's too much worried about it. My mom use to abuse her hair with color, sew-ins, glue-ins, etc. Hopefully your mom can recover. Congrats on the touchy feely date. :yay: :grin:


Yeah. I tried to tell her, but you know when the person with a license says it's cool, then lil ol' me doesn't know anything :rolleyes:

But I will talk smack about it later when we get her back on track.
And yeah, I was pissed about my hair on our first date cause I didn't want to flat iron it and I was REALLY short on time :nono:

NG coming in fierce but he still told me I was beautiful :cupidarrow:
 
@Curlybeauty - I'm sorry to hear this about your mom. My mom wears wigs 100% of the time. I cannot tell you the last time I've seen my mom's real hair. She tells me it has thinned really bad but she LOVES her wigs so I don't think she's too much worried about it. My mom use to abuse her hair with color, sew-ins, glue-ins, etc. Hopefully your mom can recover. Congrats on the touchy feely date. :yay: :grin:


Yeah. I tried to tell her, but you know when the person with a license says it's cool, then lil ol' me doesn't know anything :rolleyes:

But I will talk smack about it later when we get her back on track.
And yeah, I was pissed about my hair on our first date cause I didn't want to flat iron it and I was REALLY short on time :nono:

NG coming in fierce but he still told me I was beautiful :cupidarrow:[/QUOTE]

He sounds like a keeper:grin:
 
Speaking of trims, I'm thinking about getting one this weekend with my touchup if I can stop scratching my head :rolleyes:

But I just had one 3 months ago. I think I will hold out on the trim, and just get one in December with my next touchup :yep:

And Nix08 he is :love2: all I have to do is actually keep him :look: :lol:
 
@sunnieb - did your wet bun turn out nice?

Um...nope....:nono: It wouldn't hold all the way and kept flopping out. I know I can do better if I take my time and do it right.

I think @sunnieb should know better than to tell us about her first ever wet bun and not also show it to us...pics:yep:

It's funny, I didn't even think about taking a picture. I was rushing out the door. Even when I posted, I was sitting in my car waiting for the kiddo.

I'm home now and couldn't wait to take it down and airdry properly. I'll be sure to take a pic next time. :grin:
 
sunnieb - wet buns (in which I ABSOLUTELY don't do any more because it didn't work for me) made my scalp itch. I guess it was the dampness of the hair on my scalp all day. During the time I was damp bunning, I didn't understand that I had low porosity hair. So, by the end of the day, the middle of my bun was still very damp. Yuck! Not for me.
 
sunnieb - wet buns (in which I ABSOLUTELY don't do any more because it didn't work for me) made my scalp itch. I guess it was the dampness of the hair on my scalp all day. During the time I was damp bunning, I didn't understand that I had low porosity hair. So, by the end of the day, the middle of my bun was still very damp. Yuck! Not for me.

You're convincing me that I have low porosity hair.

What are some things that work in favor of this hair type? divachyk ?
 
@sunnieb - wet buns (in which I ABSOLUTELY don't do any more because it didn't work for me) made my scalp itch. I guess it was the dampness of the hair on my scalp all day. During the time I was damp bunning, I didn't understand that I had low porosity hair. So, by the end of the day, the middle of my bun was still very damp. Yuck! Not for me.

divachyk I don't think I'll wet bun on a regular basis. It was just an emergency thing tonight. I'm not crazy about running around with sopping wet hair.
 
Can someone smack me tomorrow if I don't mention buying stuff to make a length check shirt and soft measuring tape? I swear the brain just shuts down when I leave work.
 
I will definitely be flat ironing tomorrow after my wash and dc. It's time. Still :pray: for a job interview before school starts back. So hopefully this straightening job won't be in vain.

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I always saw a really light strand of hair on my dd's head. I could never find it again. Well today while in Pathmark I saw it and took a piece off and lo and behold it was blond. It was rather shocking to see it too, imagine a course piece of blond hair, no silkiness in sight.
 
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@Curlybeauty - Have I mentioned MO Glimmer Shine Spray to you? It's not that cheap but works (for me) when I want to have super duper extra bling. Smells good too. I purchased mine from ebay or amazon sometime ago (before joining LHCF). I think charmtreese also uses this spray. She might be able to chime in to give you another opinion on if it generates good bling.
 
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