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melophone13

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What would you do if a guy you'd just started seeing said he'd been with a prostitute?

What if he'd just gotten a happy ending from a masseuse?

Immediate deal-breaker? Workable? Does it matter the situation, why he did it, or how many times he's been back? Does he get bonus points for at least fessing up about it, lol?

A guy I've been on a few dates with mentioned that he likes getting massages so I jokingly asked him if he'd ever had a happy ending and he says Yes!!! Then he gets all offended when I freak out being like, "Should I have lied about it?"

Losing my d*mn mind over here! Lol

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:lol: at the thread title.

I think I'd be too disgusted about someone who was so careless about their sexual health to consider a ltr with them.
 
jdvzmommy said:
I think I'd be too disgusted about someone who was so careless about their sexual health to consider a ltr with them.
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I know! That's what's killing me! He's like, "It was just a handy, what's the big deal?" but then again, he's the definition of an impetuous Aries.

Can you even get an STD from those?

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melophone13 said:
I know! That's what's killing me! He's like, "It was just a handy, what's the big deal?" but then again, he's the definition of an impetuous Aries.

Can you even get an STD from those?

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Wait...I thought a happy ending was a bj.

A hand job?

Hmmmm...

IDK. He'd have to have an amazing personality and a lot of redeeming qualities.
 
I thought a happy ending was a hand job.

To me the prostitute means he's out of the running 100%

the happy ending is where circumstance comes in. Was it a surprise? Was he expecting it? Is this a place known for happy endings? Is it something he did more than once after knowing he coul get a happy ending? Etc.

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Nah I wouldn't have a problem with it. The country I grew up in, it was pretty common for young boys to be with prostitutes as their first. What folks do when their free and single does not concern me so I wouldn't judge....
 
Fine 4s said:
Nah I wouldn't have a problem with it. The country I grew up in, it was pretty common for young boys to be with prostitutes as their first. What folks do when their free and single does not concern me so I wouldn't judge....
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Oh wow how interesting. Which country is this?
 
I cam across a guy who did this last year and immediately and cut him off immediately because he lied about it when I asked him about it and so there was a trust issue. If you can sneak around with whores with no remorse, what else are you capable of?

Plus I have a daughter and I would not risk him being around her. Who knows what he can catch from them...
 
UrbainChic said:
I thought a happy ending was a hand job.

To me the prostitute means he's out of the running 100%

the happy ending is where circumstance comes in. Was it a surprise? Was he expecting it? Is this a place known for happy endings? Is it something he did more than once after knowing he coul get a happy ending? Etc.

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You know, I actually just assumed it was a hand job. Now I'm wondering if I should go back and ask him for more details...

Anyhow, not to get too graphic, but he said that the masseuse asked him to turn over and started massaging his thighs, inching towards his junk, and he just went with it. Didn't seem premeditated on his part and I didn't ask if he'd gone back since.

I'm just glad I haven't done anything sexual yet with this kid!

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happy endings are hand jobs

I wouldnt put them in the same context as being with a prostitute IMO
 
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Uh I guess Happy Endings changed or its a regional thang. Cuz the Asian Massage joint that I know of gives Happy Endings to Men and Women. ORALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL M2M,M2W&W2W.
 
melophone13 said:
I know! That's what's killing me! He's like, "It was just a handy, what's the big deal?" but then again, he's the definition of an impetuous Aries.

Can you even get an STD from those?

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:look:

No.

What STD do you imagine you can get from hands?
 
melophone13 said:
What would you do if a guy you'd just started seeing said he'd been with a prostitute?

What if he'd just gotten a happy ending from a masseuse?

Immediate deal-breaker? Workable? Does it matter the situation, why he did it, or how many times he's been back? Does he get bonus points for at least fessing up about it, lol?

A guy I've been on a few dates with mentioned that he likes getting massages so I jokingly asked him if he'd ever had a happy ending and he says Yes!!! Then he gets all offended when I freak out being like, "Should I have lied about it?"

Losing my d*mn mind over here! Lol

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I would NOT knowingly color with a man that has been with a prostitute. In my line of work I come across lots of women that have been prostitutes so that they can earn money to buy drugs - heroin crack etc. Many of these women carry all sorts of STDS including HIV/AIDS and I am sure they aren't wearing condoms. I would be concerned his lifestyle if he has been sleeping with prostitutes..

I think I could get over the fact that he had a handjob.
 
A guy paying a prostitute for anything reeks of depression to me.

If you're so desperate for a hand job that you're willing to pay for it, that's a red flag to me.
 
What if it were a woman....I wonder if the views would change like would you dump your girlfriend if she told you she got a massage with a happy ending? :lol:
 
jdvzmommy said:
A guy paying a prostitute for anything reeks of depression to me.

If you're so desperate for a hand job that you're willing to pay for it, that's a red flag to me.
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Well thats why i put prostitution and happy ending in 2 separate categories.

Happy ending is an ending to a massage that includes " release" Not really that problematic. What would be problematic would be his attitude towards it/ amount of planning/ frequency etc.

Prostitutes on the otherhand.....First of all i think you're retarded if you are going to pay a prostitute for a hand job. Theres a million and one women out there that will give you one of those for free.

As for rest of the services theres the risk involved re:stds and more importantly in my opinion ( bc realistically you dont need to have eer been with a prostitute to have stds) is his attitude towards women.

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I think paying for sex is gross -- hand job, blow job, whatever. In this day and age, men don't have to pay for sex, so i dunno. Plus, the just go with it attitude......again i dunno.

I just have a problem with a man whose approach to sex is so transactional that he is comfortable consorting with prostitutes and other sex workers.
 
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Really though? LOL
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Really though. Y'all are childishly naive if y'all think men do not incorporate sex and sexual release in many more aspects of their lives than women do. All that attitude is going to end up getting you is a man who LIES about his sexual experiences.

But y'all like being alone forever, and y'all like viewing men in unrealistic ways that ends up getting you nothing but dogs who know how to lie to you, so don't mind me :giggle:
 
meesch said:
Really though. Y'all are childishly naive if y'all think men do not incorporate sex and sexual release in many more aspects of their lives than women do. All that attitude is going to end up getting you is a man who LIES about his sexual experiences.

But y'all like being alone forever, and y'all like viewing men in unrealistic ways that ends up getting you nothing but dogs who know how to lie to you, so don't mind me :giggle:
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I don't have any problems with sex or sexual release or how someone expresses it, but don't you think you're reaching a bit?

I think this more has to do with attitudes surrounding sex. Does someone see it merely as a release or exchange between people or as something more meaningful?
Neither one deserves more judgement than the other, but to tell someone they are unrealistic because they want someone who want a more meaningful exchange is silly IMHO because there are more than enough men who want the same.
Also, you are making sweeping generalizations between men and women

I don't think lack of understand causes lies, I think judgement does, more than anything. If you are open IMO, it's all good
 
i didnt say anything about soliciting the services of prostitutes. im talking about happy ending massages which are not a separate cost/prostitution. that's why they're called a happy ending. get thee strawman to a corner.
 
meesch said:
i didnt say anything about soliciting the services of prostitutes. im talking about happy ending massages which are not a separate cost/prostitution. that's why they're called a happy ending. get thee strawman to a corner.
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I guess this is where our opinions differ. IMO, girls giving out happy endings are prostitutes.

#Kanyeshrug
 
jdvzmommy said:
I guess this is where our opinions differ. IMO, girls giving out happy endings are prostitutes.

#Kanyeshrug
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Haha, gotta love a Kanye shrug. But besides that, I agree that it's totally splitting hairs to distinguish happy endings completely from prostitution. If you're performing a sex act solely for pay (doesn't matter what act), guess what? You're a prostitute.

What bothers me even more than the ick factor is the idea that this woman may or may not have been in the trade by her own will. Sure, plenty of sex workers get into that line voluntarily, but plenty of them are trafficked or otherwise coerced as well. To think that someone I was trying to be with might have carelessly aided this process because, "Why not?" is really off-putting to me

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Genital warts come to mind meesch - regarding hand jobs and STD's.

I don't think I'd necessarily disqualify the guy for that if it were a one time thing.
My ears would perk up if he was getting private shows from strippers though - and getting extra benefits.
 
melophone13 said:
Haha, gotta love a Kanye shrug. But besides that, I agree that it's totally splitting hairs to distinguish happy endings completely from prostitution. If you're performing a sex act solely for pay (doesn't matter what act), guess what? You're a prostitute.
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The really stupid thing about this is that you worried about whether a chick is a prostitute or not instead of the motivations and actions of the man in question :giggle: I sweaaaaaaaaaaar chicks got the game so backwards.

What bothers me even more than the ick factor is the idea that this woman may or may not have been in the trade by her own will. Sure, plenty of sex workers get into that line voluntarily, but plenty of them are trafficked or otherwise coerced as well. To think that someone I was trying to be with might have carelessly aided this process because, "Why not?" is really off-putting to me

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So let me get this straight. You care about why a chick is tricking rather than why a dude is using her services? :lachen::lachen::lachen:

What on earth difference does that make? :lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
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